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male
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:My ex-fiancee cheated on me with one of her male friends for several months. We broke up because she continued to keep in touch with him behind my back even when we were "fixing" the relationship. So this question is more a moral dilemma...The "other guy" was and still is engaged to another woman. Whether the affair between him and my ex is still going on, I'm not sure, but I do know they are still in contact (phone and in person) with one another on a regular basis.I don't want to see this poor woman marry a cheating bastard. Do I tell her what has been going on? I've never met her personally before, but she has meet my ex and knows about me.
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reader, Lily Moll +, writes (17 February 2008):
I say tell her what you know. She deserves to hear it.
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (17 February 2008):
 Are you a rumor monger?
When you are not even sure , how can you tell her?
You could be wrong and you would be committing a very serious sin.
Even if you are sure, you should not take revenge on her.The other woman would find out eventually even without your help.
Just leave everything to providence or God.
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reader, hello1  +, writes (16 February 2008):
 If this was me personally I would tell her, BUT she may not believe you but at least you got it out there and put doubt in her mind.
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reader, johns +, writes (16 February 2008):
yes
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reader, polarkite +, writes (16 February 2008):
 What sweet revenge! Yeah, I'd just go for it. Send her a telegram or something.
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