A
female
age
41-50,
*ooboo1
writes:I haven't seen my ex for 7 years. He got into contact last year. He wanted to meet etc but I am with someone and he is NOW with someone. We arranged to meet last year and I called him to say where I was and he said he was going to get out of bed and call me back. I never heard from him after that until December. He is however coming close to the area I live at the weekend and sent me a text saying I'm up at the weekend do you live near by? x. I answered a bit shocked I live kinda close what brings you here? Not a word as yet. I haven't heard from him since December when he asked if I was alive?!What do I do? Text him again? Tell him to not be so rude and reply? Tell him to stick it? It feels like I never get closure with this guy.I am itching to send him a a text and give him a piece of my mind.... But does that just mae it worse?
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reader, Collaroy  +, writes (26 June 2008):
 Yes of course it makes it worse. You seem very confused and his treatment of you is the very definition of "treat em mean keep em keen" .
He is leaving you hanging, honestly what on earth do you expect to happen if you do meet up. Closure? Surely you are not that naive, if he meets with you he will probably expect sex. He's a guy, he isnt looking for closure he is looking to look up and old flame for sex.
If he really wanted to be just friends he would be making more of an effort to converse with you, I doubt these are his intentions.
And what of your current relationship? If you were truly happy with your partner you wouldnt be spending time worrying about getting closure from a boy you dated 7 years ago when you were just a teenager.
You need to give yourself a reality check, do not call him,text him or email him. If he calls you ignore it , he will eventually go away and torment some other poor soul.
good luck.
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reader, sex-slave  +, writes (26 June 2008):
 Maybe you should tell hey reply! and tell him of mildly as don't go to harsh on him till after you get your closer, If he gives a place and time to meet tell him he doesn't show this time time your never going to meet him anywhere else. That is a bit ridiculous and rude of him to be doing stuff like that at an age near yours I assume....
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