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51-59,
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writes:Hello Dear Cupids so I have a problem I need help with. Do I stick with a guy I have known for only a month, who sometimes feels the need to lie to try and impress people because he feels inadequate about himself. OR do I go back to basics. have no strings attached sex and stay single? cause every time I meet someone I think we are going to go somewhere they always turn out to be jerks!!! help thanks in advance.P.S guess I should add Im still in love with my ex husband and everyone is saying he feels the same as its obvious, so I guess I always have him in the back of my mind.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 November 2012): "Do I stick with a guy who lies because he feels inadequate?"
No, you dump a guy who lies because he lies.
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reader, janniepeg  +, writes (19 November 2012):
 I won't stick with a guy who lies. The most common things to lie in dating are age, weight, money, and education. A person who lies do not take relationships seriously. They can't handle people seeing the real them so they would settle for a fantasy. When the truth comes out the lies make them more inadequate.
Until you move on from your ex husband, you can't open yourself up to a real man.
How is casual sex going back to basics? Casual sex is available everywhere, so it has no value. It gets old fast. The solution to avoid jerks is not to accept being with jerks, a lot of whom want casual sex. When life gets you down it is important to find positive things about your life. First you have to be comfortable being single. When you are happy with your life, you radiate love, and quality people will be drawn to you.
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