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male
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30-35,
*lickyclick
writes:So here's the delio, my feelings have been really confused lately and I've sed I love this girl and she wants me to have a secret life with her behind her X's back who is my best mate Wat do i do?? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 October 2007): No! Are you nuts? Take a break from dating, dear if you are this confused about love. Thinking this way will only cause you to hurt someone, who happens to be your best friend. Step back from this couple and leave them alone and really think hard about this females character to have proposed such an outrageous proposal. Makes you wonder if she'll do the same thing to you. She's not worth it, is she?. Tell her it's a no go and get out there and date others. And stop falling for attached females. You are young and I feel teenagers should date, to shop around. But...what I do have problems with, is someone who is not honest and considering the prospect of shafting his best friend in the back while agreeing to date this guy's gf. She and you are deliberately misleading this guy, and you now have a wake up call and a snapshot into your character and hers. Both of you need work. Better let her know how you feel and give up this idea, totally. Best of luck.
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reader, flower girl +, writes (13 October 2007):
 Just something for you to take into consideration, girlfriends usually come and go, but good mates are there forever, she obviously realises it would be an issue for your friend if she wants to see you without him knowing.
It's up to you at the end of the day as you would not be doing anything wrong, maybe you should chat with your friend about it and see what he thinks, would be better than keeping it from him.
Take care.xx.
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