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female
age
41-50,
*helly7373
writes:Hi I am 30 years old. i have liked this guy i worked with for two years. this guy and i like the same things and at some point last year we had some flirty text going. however he has a gf with treat him very badly. he is not happy with her. but he is scared of change. he has told me in the past if he was not with her we would be together. we have something that cant be. just befor xmas i was his s.santa at work and after i gave him the gift he kissed me twice on the lips. scence then a little flirting be we never cross that. do i move on or hold on to my heart and hope he sees we are ment to be?
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reader, xanthic +, writes (11 January 2011):
 You are NOT meant to be together, and it's no excuse to justify crossing the line. Let's be realistic, if he was really so unhappy with his girlfriend he'd leave her. Being scared of change is a bullshit excuse, either he's only with her because it's convenient and he doesn't want to be alone or he's feeding you a sob story so he can get his cake and eat it too. Leave him alone, find someone that's single.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 January 2011): Get away and stay as far away freom him as poddible. He is sneaky as crap. He only sees you as a sex tool. He's already told you in som many words by way of a sorry pathetic excuse that he' not leaving his girl. He put that out that to see if you would go for him anyway and you did. If you had told him you wouldn't kiss him unless he was exclusive to you and dump her, he'd off left you long ago. Don't do it!
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