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*oveyousomuch123
writes:Dear Cupid, So im dating this black boy and my parents didn't know about it cause they would kill me if they knew. Well one day my mom wanted to look at my facebook and i knew he had posted comments and things on my wall, so i confessed. well she said she wouldn't tell my dad just to make it go away. We're totally in love and we've been dating for 11 months. So what should I do keep dating him or make it go away. Please, please, please help me.
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reader, Itxi  +, writes (28 November 2010):
 I'm sure you made the right choice! Good luck with everything. :)
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reader, loveyousomuch123 +, writes (27 November 2010):
loveyousomuch123 is verified as being by the original poster of the question Thank you so much people for helping me when I needed it . My decision is to stay with him I love him to much and my parents are just gonna have to get over it !
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reader, loveyousomuch123 +, writes (27 November 2010):
loveyousomuch123 is verified as being by the original poster of the question Thank you so much people for helping me when I needed it . My decision is to stay with him I love him to much and my parents are just gonna have to get over it !
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (27 November 2010):
 I will say your parents are in the wrong by being racist but I won't go there.
Another thing I will point out, that you are still a minor and in their care so what they say goes. Until you're 18, have a job, car, and $ to move out. So for now, listen to your mother and politely tell this young man that you cannot date him.
Now, when you're an adult of legal age of consent, then you can date whomever you please. You will be an adult who's capable of making her own decisions..I also suggest you do this when you move out of your parent's nest too so you don't risk getting kicked out.
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reader, largentsgirl89 +, writes (27 November 2010):
 Do you think it's okay of your mom to ask you to "get rid of it?" He is a human being as well.
If you want to be with him and you want to date him, then date him and don't let your parents dictate who you can be with (although they can until you are 18).
Teens feelings change, hell, everyone's feelings change quite rapidly and hopefully your guys' love will last. Eleven months is an amazing amount of time to spend with one person and I'm sure you know him very well and he probably knows you very well also.
You need to decide for yourself on this one. Do you want to risk your parents' wrath on you or do you want to continue your relationship with the guy that you love?
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reader, Cerberus_Raphael  +, writes (27 November 2010):
 If you love him, you should keep dating him. Tell your mother that you love him and you cannot just leave him like that. You do what your heart tells you to do and right now I imagine that it is practically begging you not to leave him otherwise you would not have asked that question on here.
I must warn you though that you are still young and feelings change in teenagers faster than the seasons themselves. Make sure that this is what you truly want and hopefully this relationship, this love you have will last.
I hope that helps.
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reader, Itxi +, writes (27 November 2010):
It all depends on how extreme your parents are. But first, congratulations are in order that you can still be open minded when being raised by racists.
You need to choose this one for yourself, do you want to cause trouble in the family, but at the same time do you want to leave great relationship because your dad has outdated ideas?
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