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Do I honestly like him enough to be going out with him if my feelings change all the time?

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Question - (1 February 2010) 3 Answers - (Newest, 3 March 2010)
A female Canada age 30-35, anonymous writes:

me and my bf have been going out on and off for the past 2 years, when we break up it usually only lasts a few days or a few weeks max but I'm always the one that breaks up with him. My question is do I honestly like him enough to be going out with him if my feelings change all the time... i mean one day i can be thinking about him 24/7 and the next i dont want to be with him what do i do?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (3 March 2010):

babe i was the exact same with my boyfriend, i was with him for a year and we broke up 3 days ago and its really hard but i feel so much more happier, just a little advise babe, dont get back with him if you dont always love him because if you have days where your like 'dont want him near me' its so not to be babes x

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A female reader, curious0hot United States +, writes (1 February 2010):

curious0hot agony auntWhat are some of the reasons you don't want to be with him? Maybe breaking up until you aren't turned off anymore isn't a good idea. Try addressing what is causing you to cool off, and seeing if he can fix it.

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (1 February 2010):

No, you don't. And you're playing with him a bit. You just don't love him. It's more likely he represents some sort of security. But the fact is he's not the guy for you.

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