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female
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anonymous
writes:Hi there, i really need some help and fast! I'm going on my first one to one date with this guy tomorrow but i've been on and off whether i should see him since he asked me. We went out as part of a group a few days ago and we really hit it off and were together most of the night. But then we'd also had a lot to drink! He's turning 24 soon and i'm 18 and he said that doesn't bother him because i'm mature and stuff but i'm just really unsure about him and i don't want to mislead him. But yeah, i really don't know what to do - some moments i'm really excited about seeing him and being with him one to one this time... but then another part of me feels queasy about it. There's a 5 year age gap, i work with him and although he's really lovely and such a knd person his frequent swearing irritates me slightly. But then again like i said he's really kind and affectionate. The date's tomorrow - what should i do!? I mean i did really fancy him but now the chase is over and the fact we're dating is reality and he's texting me all the time - i'm very unsure. Sorry about the confusing message i hope you get the gist!Pleasee reply sooon - i need some help and the dates tommorrow - do i go and see how it goes or should i end this now?G.
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reader, SmilySmily  +, writes (5 December 2010):
I have to agree with the person below me there!
Yeah why not? give it a go like. You know that he's a nice fella and all I know why you're so unsure about everything etc but you wouldn't know till you give it ago..It's better to regret things that you've done than things that you haven't done. Not saying that you will regret by the way!!! I think you should defo give it ago and see where it goes and 5 years age gap isnt' much..it seems like a lot to you now but think about it like.. 30 years old and 35 years old? thats not a problem is it? Hope u hava great time with ur boy x
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 December 2010): I think you should go and try and have a nice time. It's too late to back out now but try and keep things casual. Five years is not too much of a gap. You are just nervous as now a date is a reality. So go. Try and be relaxed about it. And take things from there.
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