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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:Hi I was just wondering what I can do in this situation I met a man we became fwbs as he didn't want any commitment as he hadn't been single long when we met there is such a spark with us that the sex is amazing when we are together I met a man 7 weeks ago on a night out he said he is looking for a relationship same as which I would prefer we have tried to have sex last week we managed once but he couldn't maintain a erection the time after and it has been like this since plus he is very small and cannot last very long what should I do thank you
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reader, Honeypie  + ♥, writes (3 June 2012):
 If you want a relationship DATE/GET TO KNOW guys who are looking for a relationship.
If you just want sex, have the FWB with the guy who "just" want sex.
Why get into a relationship if you aren't 100% committed to the person? You don't even know him. All you know is that he wants a relationship, is not so great in the sex department. IS that really something to build a relationship on?
Just because a guy says he WANTS a relationship doesn't mean you and him would hit it of, in and out of bed.
And I agree, it makes you sound like you would date ANYONE just to be in a relationship, that is rather desperate sounding.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 June 2012): I would sit back and think about why you are with someone who only wants one thing and the moment you come across someone who does, yet is so unsuitable, you are thinking about it. Is this all you will ever get? It sounds like desperation.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 June 2012): Not easy to decide really. You have a man who is using you for sex versus a man who does nothing for you, but at least wants a relationship. If you are that desperate for a relationship work out why. Forget both of them.
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