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female
age
51-59,
*hlinki
writes:I've been seeing a married man who is now in Iraq. He's told me repeatedly that he is not in love with his wife but feels he needs to do the right thing and finished what he started. He has a daughter and is afraid that his wife will use her against him. I told him that I can't go on being second. And he understands but is begging for me to stay in his life as just his friend. He says he misses talking to me and is sorry he hurt me. Question is do I continue being his friend? Why does he need my friendship so much? I don't understand.
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reader, Teacake +, writes (2 December 2008):
 You have to know by now that you have no business getting involved with a man who isn't divorced. That in time he will do to you what he is doing to her.
The daughter will always come before you. And the wife will always be in his life in some way or another.
Look for a single man who lives in your own city. Good luck
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