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writes:alright. so in a nutshell i have a baby momma. when we initially got together in our earlier twenties she was this good girl routine play. you know wanted a family and relationship and all this stuff. so sure enough i was down for this girl then i found out she was seeing some other dude behind my back after about six months of serious dating after knowing each other for a while. so i was crushed. we still kept hooking up and a child was born. again, we had trust issues so stuff didn't go good. we were not together the entire pregnancy. she wanted to try to work things out and then i wanted to try too, but there was just too much damage between us. so we had a very bad and dramatic split. fast forward six months to a year later we tried again and then i had some personal family things happen and we split again. so here we are two years later. well she's been throwing the goods at me but i been dodgy and trying to avoid it but then one day those goodies just looked to good and i ravaged it. i had mix emotions cause at first i was hurt feeling like man our emotional relationship just blows but the sex is so good dang nasty and hot i love it and want it. this girl is so soft and i just man and she looks so slutty i love it. and in bed she's just a dirty little whore and i love it. but the relationship there really is no compatibility. so skip forward we end up doing it again no big deal i crashed at her place and went home before our child woke up.so then she asks me for a quickie but our schedules didn't allow it. tonight i wanted to get some of that but then i changed my mind and made up this tired thing. when in reality i really want to go tear that up but on the flip side we have a kid together and you know quite frankly I think I'm at a point with her where i could just literally hit it and be done with it, but then i feel weird cause we have a kid together so it just adds a layer of complexity. i feel like if im going to be doing a booty call it should be with another chick.i think i'm just conflicted cause in a nutshell the past several years I've dated but my mind and dick has still been on this chick to some degree and now that its here and she's throwing it at me again without the BS at this time because she seems to just be horny I'm not sure how to play it.i really just wanna tear it up and enjoy it but I just don't know what the consequences is gonna be this time around and since I already hit it i already feel addicted to wanting to do the nasty with her. so i guess im asking some internet strangers to please help me with some feedback from my thought process.do i booty call my baby momma? do i ravage it a couple times and then quit? do i put my ground down and say without an emotional relationship we shouldn't do it (kills me to do this).
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reader, Ciar  +, writes (5 August 2013):
 I got part way through the first paragraph and decided I couldn't stomach any more. If you're old enough to have sex and father a child then surely you're old enough and mature enough to answer your own question.Be the kind of father you and your children can be proud of by doing what is right instead of what feels good at any given moment. Your child's mother clearly has no self respect but that is not an invitation to treat her like trash. Join the human race instead of behaving like a rutting animal. Keep life simple and don't invite drama and chaos into it by setting clear, simple boundaries and sticking to them.
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reader, Dodds  +, writes (5 August 2013):
 If you wanna fuck, then you wanna fuck. PERIOD!! Ain't nobody gonna tell you what to do coz you want her, n she wants you.That's pure, raw, animal attraction and fighting that is hard. I guess what I'm trying to say is that you'll know when it's the right time to make a proper decision.Good luck dude, and stay safe!!
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