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Do I ask him out or just drop enough hints so that he knows he won't be shot down?

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Question - (17 April 2011) 1 Answers - (Newest, 17 April 2011)
A female Canada age 26-29, anonymous writes:

I like a guy and I know he likes me back, but we aren't going out. Basically the guy is super shy and well, kinda unmanly, so he assumes the feelings aren't mutual and I'm guessing he wouldn't even think about asking me out until he was 110% certain I'd say yes.

All my friends tell me that since he's so iffy, I should just go ask him out to get it over with. Or drop enough hints until he's certain I like him.

So guys, question #1: What are some creative ways to ask someone out?

I've heard of writing the message on a rock and throwing it through their window, but that's a bit much. But something creative along those lines.

And question #2: What are good ways to drop hints?

I've heard of "accidently" touching hands/arms, or fixing his hair. Anything else?

Thanks so much!!

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A female reader, punkgirl14 United States +, writes (17 April 2011):

punkgirl14 agony aunthey girl i totally get this!(: okay first u just write a note and give it to him and make sure "hes" the one that gets it and then tell him how u feel.. is that creative enough? and if u wanna drop hints.. send him a smiley through text alll the time and play with his hair and do exactly what u said and accidently touch his hand and his arms.. so if this helpss im happy for uu:) good luck!!

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