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writes: Do guys take rejection to heart becasue a guy asked me out and I said no. This was few years ago and I met him recently and he's still mad at me becasue I said when he asked me I actually did like the guy but I didn't know if he saw me as friend or girlfriend? He said I was total towards him and I wasn't. I might been mean teasing and making jokes but that's all. I emailed him and said I liked him and he was nice to me but he also had tons of other attention as well beside me but I probaby made him mad.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 March 2009): but he was mocking me and making fun of me as well.i didn,t directly rejected him.now he is scour at me.but i did honesly like him but i was too shy and quiet to tell becasue i din,t want to get hurt.
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reader, wonderingcat  +, writes (3 March 2009):
 On the other hand, if he still carries on being "mad" at you for being rejected, years afterward, that's not a good sign either.
If he was "smart", he would have just put a tick on a box labelled "not a nice girl" - that be you.
Not every guy - or girl - carries a grudge over a rejection. We all face rejection every day in our lives. Bus/train is full, they shut the door on our face. The florist would not give you a discount. You are not dressed according to code so they won't let you in into the restaurant/club. Etc etc etc. Imagine if we carried a grudge for every rejection we get. Carrying a grudge just eats away the good stuff that is in a person.
Not every girl/guy rejects by making fun of the person. Conversely, not every girl/guy is considerate and polite in giving a rejection.
Be nice to people and people will be nice to you. Well, most of the time anyways.
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reader, mulattoman  +, writes (3 March 2009):
 It all depends on the person. Some have humility, and some don't. Just do yourself a favor, don't be a bitch, and let them down lightly - and making fun isn't nice at all. I'm sure you'd want the same if being rejected.
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