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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:hi, i have been mates with this lad for about 4 years. i have always liked him, i had a boyfriend of 2 years. thats didnt work out. and i recently met up with my mate that i have always liked. and he told me he liked me too. we kissed... and he said he wants to get with me and take things slow so he can prove to me that he isnt going to treat me like dirt like my last boyfriend. what should i do? Reply to this Question
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reader, wonderingcat +, writes (3 March 2009):
 Take up on his offer.
You have already learned what not to accept in a relationship with your last b/f. That is, you are a human being, not dirt, so you deserved to treated as an equal partner. Partners respect each other and support each other.
If your mate is offering respect and love, take it, with one condition: you respect and love him too.
Cat
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