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*emyselfandi2
writes:So I met a girl at a party the other day and hung out 2 days later. I think she is cute but I do not feel any emotions at all for her. We made out for maybe over an hour, but I do not feel attached to her. I did not even get an erection. I am concerned for 2 reasons:1. Could I be gay because nothing happened down there? I do not find guys attractive and I constantly eye girls, but is it possible that it just won't work2. Do guys have to feel emotional about every girl they hook up with or is it normal to not feel anything once in a while.PS: I know this might sound like i did something wrong but it was the first time doing this and only because I would like to do something other than wait for the right girl to come along.
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reader, person12345  +, writes (25 September 2012):
 Not everyone has chemistry. I've only felt fireworks with two guys I've been with, and I've at least kissed WAY more than that. Good chemistry is rare and it sounds like you didn't feel it with her. It doesn't mean you're gay. Like Bondgirl says, either don't see her again, or go on a normal date/get to know her where you talk and such. Some people can't feel strong attraction to others without an emotional bond in place.
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reader, BondGirl72 +, writes (25 September 2012):
 There's a difference between being attracted to someone and just finding someone "cute" or "good-looking". I find lots of men good-looking, but feeling a connection or actually being attracted to them is different.
Also, you just met the girl, hung out 2 days later, and you're expecting fireworks all of a sudden? Why not take some time to get to know her, or, if you aren't attracted to her at all, move on. The worst thing you can do is lead someone on just because you think she is "cute".
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