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writes: My wife and I have been married for aboput 3 years, 2 children, one who is mine and one who isnt. We've had a rocky road so far, cheating and lying and drinking, mostly on my part. We seperated about 10 days ago when I got a d.u.i. She says she still loves me but doesn't like me anymore. I keep telling myself to work it out and wait it out but something tells me that I'm not going to be happy. I haven't been all that happy for a while but held on for the kids. Should I still try to work it out? She tells me that if I straighten out my problems she might give me another chance but in the meantime I don't know that she's not out with other guys. What do I do?? Reply to this Question |
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reader, Irish49  + ♥, writes (23 June 2005):
 Sounds like YOU have some self-esteem & deep rooted emotional problems. I would suggest you get some serious counselling and find out "why" you drink, why you feel the need to cheat, etc. She and those kids deserve a devoted, loving, respectful husband/father in their lives. And then only after the help you get...there could be a chance she'll want you back. Right now, she & the kids are better off without you.(the kids need a responsible, loving role model, as a father) But with some help..you can heal. You have a long hard road ahead of you...I wish you luck. But the only person who help you change is ...you. It's all a matter of choices (your choices) in life...and taking the right path. Good luck.
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