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writes:I have been in a relationship with this man for 7 years (as of New Years Eve) and am very confused right now about what to do about a situation that has come up. I recently discovered that he has profiles on dating sites for, um how do I put this delicately, meeting people for *adult* relations. I haven't confronted him directly about this, but have said that a friend of mine caught her husband doing this and asked him what he thinks about it. he said that it sounded like an invasion of privacy and that the friends husband could take her to court. i did however create a fake email and contacted him, and recieved flirtacious replies.help!
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reader, ally20  +, writes (5 October 2008):
I found my boyfriend of 4 years had been on a few sites like that, I was really hurt that he had been on there, this was a couple of months ago, I'm 26 weeks pregnant and we have a three year old son together. He said he done a profile on the sites just to see what attention he could get, he said he would never have met up with anyone or done anything.
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reader, tsarina  +, writes (3 October 2008):
Get out girlfriend!!! There is no doubt in my mind that this guy is cheating on you - either physically or psychologically....Take action and go find yourself a 'real' man. The situation is doing nothing for your self esteem. Good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 October 2008): I think you already know what you need to do. End the relationship and take your dignity intact with you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 October 2008): Girl let him go! I had an ex once that was doing the same thing, I created a fake account and he replied flirty and all then wanted to meet me. I confronted him about it and he quickly turned it on me saying I was snooping! most likely your guy will probably get defensive since he got caught and do the same. If a man is not happy with you and your sex life and looks elsewhere on a tasteless web site for "sexual encounters" he's not worth it!Orrrr, if you would like to work it out and keep him, simply ask him what is your relationship is lacking that you can improve. Good luck =)
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