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writes:Hi, I'm a little confused right now and don't know what to think or do. I'll try to keep this as short as possible but I need to include all relevant details. Well basically, before me and my gf got together she was talking to another guy to whom she sent pictures of herself in her underwear. After we had got together somebody revealed this, and when confronted (by her brother) her natural response was to cry and deny any truth in it. Anyway, just recently my gf spotted my mother's bf/ex at another woman's house nearby to my gf's parents house, my gf mentioned this to my mother who then confronted him about it. Suspicious that it was my gf who had seen and mentioned it to my mother he threatened to hack my gf's phone in order to find out (my gf in fact told my mother this in person so there's no evidence of this on hers or my mother's phone). Today, he contacted my mother and told her that he's got into my gf's phone to find out that she has been cheating on me. Now, naturally both me and my gf said he's just saying this to get back at my gf for telling my mother about him and the other woman (again he has no proof it was my gf who even seen him, let alone told my mother), but I had to ask my gf nonetheless, just in case he has hacked into her phone. Now here's the tricky part, just as in the past when my gf's secret about the pictures was revealed, she began to cry and again say there's no truth in it, and said she's crying because she can't believe someone would invade her privacy by hacking into her phone (again no proof he has hacked into it, only what he's said). She phoned the police and they told my gf that there's no way he could hack her phone unless he had physical contact with the phone and installed some hacking software program, or, have her mobile number, he hasn't and doesn't. So this brings us to where I am now and I guess my question is do you guys find anything suspicious about my gf's reaction to this accusation of her cheating on me, or could she be telling the truth that she hasn't cheated and it's just my mother's ex bf spreading vicious rumours? Many thanks.
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reader, Slippers +, writes (20 August 2015):
Everyone reacts differently ..I have a friend who when in tense situations starts giggling .. does it mean she making light of the situation .. nope it's just her way of expression her anxiety at that point .. If your worried because of past behaviour you could suggest that you look her phone over to see if there anything suspicious on it .. or you can let it drop and just watch her behaviour and how she is with you .
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 August 2015): Regardless of whether she's cheating or not, I'd be very suspicious of a chick who enjoys stirring up drama by telling your mother that her EX was at another woman's house.But given her history of turning on the waterworks and LYING when confronted with something she's done, if I were you I'd have difficulty believing anything she said. It only takes one lie to prove someone is a liar.And if she's crying because someone "invaded her privacy" that to me indicates she has something to hide whether or not your mother's ex has anything on her.Seems like you and your mother have hooked up with a couple of losers whom both of you would be better off without. You can do a lot better than a lying, cheating, back-stabbing, histrionic drama queen. Dump her.
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