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female
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41-50,
*enith
writes:Hi I was dating a guy who always told me he had a lot of respect for me and always held me in high regard from other girls he dated but then we broke up cuz he couldn't committ but has been calling me anyway. I was avoiding the calls since he couldn't offer me a relationship but then we were at the same party the other nite and since I still have feelings I was nervous so I got a little drunk and made out w a guy at the club. The nxt day my x called and asked me if he saw correctly and did I kiss that guy. I said yes but I was drunk. He acted like he didn't care but then why did he call me? And its been a week since that call and he hasn't called back. Here's my question. Did kissing that guy make him think I am a slut? He always had respect for me and now I feel like I turned him off and he thinks low of me and I am ashamed. I still miss him calling since I figured he was starting to come around. Now what?!
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reader, kurvy +, writes (12 November 2008):
I've been in that position and that happen to me recently. My girlfriend did that to me which is now my ex, but we all got together at a friends house and got really drunk. She ended up making out with my good friend and I was really mad and upset.
It is just typical jealousy and since he was your x, he still has feelings for you and everything. He does care for you still, but he won't admit it, that's why he called and asked in the first place.
Although you were drunk and everything it is hard to convince him that because all he sees is that you just kissed another guy and all. I would say you try calling him and tell him how you feel and apologize for what you did and see how it goes from there!
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reader, rejuven8  +, writes (12 November 2008):
He most likely lost a bit of respect for you, but I don't think its because you kissed the guy. I think it's because you got drunk before you kissed the guy!!! But no, I don't think, he thinks you're a slut.
He most likely got a bit 'green', give him time to get over it and see what happens. To be honest, I think you should move on with your life anyway, cause I don't think this guy wants to be in a relationship with you. But there's a lot of nice men out there, don't get stuck on someone who doesn't deserve you
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