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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Well okay here goes, I really can't believe I'm doing this but I need help. Sorry if this gets long want to make it clear as possible. I have been seeing a guy 11 years older then myself for the last year and 8 months. His divorced, no children, his ex wife really hurt him badly they were only married for 2 years, she was cheating on him. I spoke to herself about her side of the story and well of course he told me his. I know he does not trust females anymore for that matter, they have been divorced for 3 years now. He does absolutely anything for me and my family, it does not matter what it is he will do it. Okay we have had sex a few times and I must say I did ask him if we could so it was not him wanting to. Same time ago he said something about moving to nz, which is a wonderful idea, over december he went to nz, and we spoke over email as much as we could. Something really odd happened, he would call me his princess and angel and that he misses me a lot, stuff he would not normally say.. Before he left we had a good talk a nice one, where he explained a few things to me about what hurts him about females, I understand but I'm not her. He said that his bending his own ruled because he cares about me and likes me for who I am. Here is the thing, every time the nz story comes up he says he has his reasons for taking me with and I won't go with when he goes again this year. I know he stays with people that are the same religion as we are and that does make a good difference. He.started his business in nz with his friend that stays there, I am so afraid that he will permanently move there without me. He sometimes says I have my own two feet to stand on, which I know I can do. Did I make a mistake with this guy in thinking his the one, or should I wait for him to heal.. I really love him and I know deep inside he loves me too..
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