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writes:I just tried sticking a dildo in my vagina and it hurt so I left it in there for like 20 seconds because I wanted to see if I could break my hymen, but then it kept hurting so I stopped. I started bleeding afterwards (obviously), so does that mean I broke my hymen for good and can have sex without pain? Or do I need to feel that again? I want to break it before sex.
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reader, lexilou  +, writes (3 July 2008):
 It is possible it was broken before. Do you use tampons for example.
Your hymen isnt inside you, its a thin piece of tissue (skin) that is on the outer part of your vagina so if the dildo went in its definately broken now! x
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reader, LazyGuy  +, writes (3 July 2008):
 It is not unknown for women to tear their hymen during child birth.
The hymen is just a loose bit of skin at the entrance to your vagina. Some women tear it during normal life, others have it so strong that it needs to be cut by a doctor. Some never have it at all. It can be so flexible that during sex it just gives way. Or it gets partially torn over time.
As for the pain, well let the women answer that but I think that part of the pain from first penetration maybe due to the fact that you are simply not used to anything going inside there. It is not just your hymen tearing that hurts for virgins.
In fact, depending on size and how ready you are, penetration can always carry an element of pain. Again, women can probably explain that better. You are after all shoving a huge and massive piece of flesh (please, do not correct me) into a hole designed to be a snug fit.
Yes, you probably did tear most of your hymen, and this may have helped reduce the pain during sex. Wouldn't count on the first time being any less awkward though.
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reader, emj +, writes (3 July 2008):
 it will hurt this way or anyway sweet i suppose this way ur in control of the pain but after you have first broken your haymen the first few times will be slightly uncomfertable anyway , you might get a few spots of blood also during intercorse but people are different i bled a bit of my first then was ok after that all depends sweet just be careful and make sure u practise safe sex its not worth risking it:) hope this helps xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 July 2008): Yes, you probably broke it, but sex will hurt for a while till probably the 4th or 5th time you have sex. I'd say keep practicing with the dildo until you don't have anymore pain.
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reader, LilzDon'tKnow +, writes (3 July 2008):
 Yupps do it again though to make sure if you bleed again then nope
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