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*owapa
writes:Basically went on a date for the first time in ages :) but I'm kinda confused, because although we had good banter and he kindly paid for my cinema ticket and also wanted to pay for my dinner (I didn't want him to though because we're both students and both skint) but he didn't put his arm around me during the movie, and he didn't kiss me or not even a peck? It's not like I was expecting a full snog but do you know what I mean? I think it got quite awkward when he walked me to my door, haha, it was sort of like urm, what do we do? And when he left he said, "see you later". But I'm thinking he either doesn't fancy me or sorta decided we could just be friends? Which I don't mind! Just sorta wanted other people's opinions? Thank you xx Reply to this Question
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (3 May 2011):
 sounds like he respects you and is shy.
i think he will call again...
give him some time.
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reader, olderthandirt  +, writes (3 May 2011):
 I'd tend to think he's just inexperienced or coming off a bad break-up and as confused as a deer in the headlights of an oncoming truck. Guys are not all macho self -confident etc.
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reader, Honeypie + ♥, writes (3 May 2011):
 It's hard to say, maybe he was as nervous as you were.
If he hasn't called you yet - or you haven't called him. I would let it go.
Go on a few dates, have fun.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 May 2011): That he paid for everything, walked you to the door, picked you up for the date is a much better indication of how much he likes you than risking coming off like a pig and having his hands all over you! He'll call again..just relax.
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reader, towapa +, writes (3 May 2011):
towapa is verified as being by the original poster of the question Thanks for responses :) It's part of the whole dating world and it's just one of those things really. I had fun, so I think that's all it matters really, just not going to dewell on it xx
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reader, cupidus  +, writes (3 May 2011):
 Don't call him, don't think about it. It was a lovely date.
I do think he'll call, but don't dwell on it.
I do think though it won't be long before your in the cue for another cinema.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 May 2011): It seams that this guy is a bit shy thats all... Trust me I've been there... Do you know his history? Don't take further conclusions until you talk to him...
Anyway if he's shy ask him in a nice kinda funny way:
Hey why didn't you kissed me? Are you shy? (And hope for the best) Hahahahaha
I was shy once... I've grown out of it and after that had lots of shy girls to kiss LOL
So that's why I've said that... Maybe he can then tell you why...
But be sure he's shy first.... try to talk to one of his friends discretely...
If you don't feel like it just wait a while and start a conversation... Say that you enjoyed your date... and ask him out again!!! If he denies just say... Ok then if you want call me anytime! And go on your way knowing that he will not call you (probably) :)
Bottom line, it doesn't say anything... Maybe he didn't like you indeed or maybe he's only shy...!!!
Doesn't matter what you wanna do....
The key is communication! Never try to assume something without knowing the other side... That's my model
Good luck
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