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Did he cum on my chest because he didn't enjoy the blow job?

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Question - (17 June 2010) 15 Answers - (Newest, 21 September 2010)
A female United States age 41-50, anonymous writes:

I am a 25 year old married woman. Recently, I was giving my husband a blow as he really likes that, when he had me stop, lay on the bed on back, and began to rub his penis over my breats and then shot on my boobs. We had never done this. I had never even heard of it. Does that mean the BJ was no good? My husband said no, and that he would want to do this again some time. But would a guy really want to shoot this way if the BJ was a good one?

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A male reader, olderthandirt  +, writes (21 September 2010):

olderthandirt agony auntIt is impossible to Not enjoy a good BJ. he came on your tits in the dear hope that you'd love it! The male fantasy is that his women loves his ejaculation as much as he does. try rubbing it all over your breasts next time and saying "more,more, more!" you'll make his fantasy come true. lucky guy.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (21 June 2010):

haha..you two should watch a porn together......very common :) and don't get mad at him if he does...everybody does...even your dad. :D

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A reader, anonymous, writes (21 June 2010):

Nah. He does it because you turn him on like crazy! Rub it in to your tits, lick your finger tips, lick the last drips off his cock, look him sraight in the eye and tell him you love the taste and you love watching him spurt. Enjoy.

If you really don't like any of this, of course, then don't do any of it, but tell him why. Nicely, without confrontation. He probably doesn't want to do anything that really puts you off.

But if you do show you enjoy it, it wil bring you really close. Crazy, but that's sex for you!

Nexxt day you can ask him to do anything you want!!

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A female reader, MissJAlice United Kingdom +, writes (20 June 2010):

MissJAlice agony auntLOL.

Hi there,

No this dosent mean he didnt enjoy the BJ.

Me and my boyfriend have done that numerous of times lol.

It just means he enjoys doing it in different places.

Doing it on your boobs means he wants to focus on your boobs and he enjoys seeing the expression on your face.

Just make sure you give out a good signal like you are loving it, rub it into your boobs. lol.

Anyway, hope this helps.

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A male reader, george3 United States +, writes (19 June 2010):

george3 agony aunthe cum on your breast because that was exciting. He wanted to show you his male prowess, and to watch your face as you watched him squirt his load. My experience with shooting on a girls breast is breath taking. Be glad he did, and ask him to keep doing cumming that way.

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A female reader, ilovehimalways United Kingdom +, writes (19 June 2010):

ilovehimalways agony auntMy ex used to love to do this to me . . . he would always have me go down on him, but just loved to cum on my boobs . . it's just a man thing :D

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A reader, anonymous, writes (19 June 2010):

If he wants to make the sex a little naughtier and a little bit more like porn, (as long as your ok with it) you should join him in the fun. Watch some porn, maybe even together, use other parts of your body to massage his member; feet, breasts, hands, etc. Just roll with it and have fun. If you do decide to let him cum on your face make sure to close your eyes. My friend didnt and it stung for an hour. lol

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A reader, anonymous, writes (17 June 2010):

it doesnt mean the bj was bad, its simply a different place to cum. My fiance loves going on my face or boobs etc. Not every time but sometimes. He says its something different. Also its very visual, huge turn on for guys. Lil bit of a mess but it washes off easy. If your ok with it he'll love if you let him cum on u again. Mine sometimes even does it after sex, just for the slightly naughty feeling. I dont mind, if he's enjoying himself then all is good :)

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A reader, anonymous, writes (17 June 2010):

Yeh, My guy has put it on my back then presssed against me after,sometimes on my face, boobs. Get creative. Rub it in, taste it. - they like that too!

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (17 June 2010):

He is probably trying to make it a bit more dirty and liven things up. Most guys, myself included, love to shoot their stuff wherever they can. Usually internally, but externally hasa bit of extreme-sex linked to it. Kinda porn-ish, but it turns many guys on. I'd not only roll with it, but ask him if he would like to cum in your face, your hair or other places..of course ONLY if you are ok with it.

BTW, it is not a "marking territory" thing. For guys, it is an acceptance thing. If a woman lets you spray your seed in intimate or unusual areas, it signifies acceptance.

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A male reader, celestial Canada +, writes (17 June 2010):

Come on! They do that only in every porn video?!? Watch some porn!

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A female reader, BunnyTee United States +, writes (17 June 2010):

BunnyTee agony auntPersonally, I believe this behavior is related to territorial marking, like cats/dogs peeing on things. Doesn't mean it was a lousy blow job, though. It's one of those "guy things", just roll with it. No big deal.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (17 June 2010):

yes he would...especially if it was good. it is messy...but if you dont mind and he likes it then its a small thing to have a mess. :) mal

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A female reader, chigirl Norway +, writes (17 June 2010):

chigirl agony auntYes. Men like that.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (17 June 2010):

He came on your chest because this is something men like to do; if the BJ wasn't good, he would have told you to stop or he wouldn't have cum at all. You're reading far too much into this.

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