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writes:What is flirting? I am 16 and have a 15 year old gf. She spends most of her waking hours calling me on the phone and at school devotes as much time to being with me as possible. But there are some things that bother me. For instance about two weeks after we started going out she told me she had spent the night up until 4a.m. talking to one of the guys off my myspace page who I had not introduced her to. This guy has a habit of flirting with other guys's gfs so this put me off immediately. Then she tells me that she had even asked him to go on a webcam with her! and I cant think of any other reason to ask that except for the sake of checking someone out. Also we went out with him and another girl once and he would cutely joke with her and she would nudge him and say "Stop iiit" like she was flirting with him. Is that something to be worried about? Also most of her friends and even some of her family members have told me shes a little boy crazy but since shes been with me she mostly seems committed except for the stuff I just posted. Is it okay to be wary about her?
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (9 December 2008):
She may have been flirting but that doesn't mean anything.
If you don't like it then tell her. Just explain calmly that it upsets you to see her flirting with other guys.
I flirt all the time and it means nothing. My husband doesn't care. If it ever did then he would tell me and I'd make sure I didn't do it with that person.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, To_Di_Always +, writes (9 December 2008):
Yes worry, i am a 15 year old girl and even i know how stupid i can get around guys who show an interest in me...or just guys in general. You see...girls at their teenage years are at their worst. They are hormonal in more ways than one. They have mood swings, they are attention crazy, they do (no woman should deny it) think about sex just as much as guys do. many other ways too. but attention is your problem right now. well she is like me
i am 15 my fiance (yes we are engaged, but please do not think it is a joke..I am trying to help so please be grateful ^ ^') is 18 well I am still bad while he just exited puberty
and once i hit 14 1/2 i noticed my desire for every single guys attention! i hated myself! but i couldnt stop! I just wanted it so badly, but most women do; when they are older they can control themselves better!
as young girls our hormones confuse us leaving us with feelings we cant control or understand
most desire a serious relationship, but when they get one they freak out and feel like they want it to end. we cant make up our minds. which is confusing to males, thats why men cant understand women. they only get sexually hormonal normally. women get worse than just that! but she just has like 3 more years till she gets away from puberty, but if you want to put up with her behavior then that means you are serious about her and love her. if you aren't or dont then just break up with her! ^ ^' if you are like any other teenage boy you normally arent gonna care if she does this, but seeing as you do then talk to her about it, and if she gets defensive just tell her if she isnt prepared to talk about it then she doesnt respect you and its over. my fiance and i already talked about it and i already admitted my wrong doing, my dislike for myself can keep me up at night and if she isnt upset by the way she hurts you then well she doesnt care for you. (PMS is puberty for a week, so be understanding when your wife or mother or whatever has her period or PMS)
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