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I am 20 years old, I know this is quite young but have been through a lot in my life so can use this knowledge to help others.

i have studied Psychology for A-Level, A-level health and social care and am now studying a degree in Health and social care which takes into consideration counselling and psychology.

I love to offer advice to people and will not be judgemental and will always have s, dignity and above all strive to protect people from abuse.

All my boyfriend seems to want is sex

Q.   I've ended my unhappy marriage of 20 years. Then I met this man 19 years older than me. He gives me all the attention I've craved for years. We live in separate houses. He's helpful in my house. But he always wants sex when I'm with him. Even if ...

A.   5 June 2012: from a close friend of mines (a males) perspective.. his view is that men see sex as a way of showing that you love them, that you find them desirable and want them to be intimate with you.. I know this isn't the case always, but.. bear that ... (read in full...)

Infatuation with a stranger.

Q.   I suppose we can call this infatuation but I'm distraught over why I am. Last month I met someone who spent the whole late hours of the night to 8 am in the morning with me simply talking. Yes I did kiss him. I gave him my Skype reluctantly and he a...

A.   4 June 2012: Well if i was the guy in my honest opinion i would be confused as to why you said that and be wondering why you didn't want to meet me in reality i think after getting told this i wouldnt contact the person back cus i'd be hurt you could try... (read in full...)

What's behind the lock out?

Q.   I am a woman in her early 40s. Divorced 2 years and have dated a little but find dating difficult as I never did much before marrying my first husband of 20 years. I do have a boyfriend now. He asked me after only a few dates to see him exclusively. ...

A.   3 June 2012: Hi, maybe he just feels that the relationship is moving too fast.. or maybe he is hiding something you will never know unless you confront him about it.. maybe he's thrown soo much junk in there that he doesnt want you to see the untidyness o... (read in full...)

I was depressed and b/f ran away and stopped calling me. I want him back!

Q.   I was suffering with a bit of depression last year, i wanted to run away and hide from all my problems i had a home. I said this to me boyfriend, instead he ran away and stopped calling me. After six months I tried to contact him, but he is n...

A.   3 June 2012: Depression is difficult for anyone who hasn't experienced it to understand. It leads friends and partners to believe "that they are not helping you at all in your life as you have depression." You could try asking your friend could you e-mail... (read in full...)

I never made much of an effort with b/f's family and now I regret it

Q.   I have been with my boyfriend for three years now. And in those three years I have only met his mother twice, and his other family a few times and haven't spoke all that much to them. The reason I haven't made much of an effort is because I've ...

A.   3 June 2012: Well... firstly you didn't like the family in the beginning do you like them now..? maybe his brothers new girlfriend is also loud and outgoing, were you seem to be shy and reserved. try and make a little bit of an effort on their birthdays ... (read in full...)

Why is everything conditional in this marriage to her? Am I way too forgiving?

Q.   Firstly, a big thankyou to the agony aunts who helped me through some past difficult times :) I can bring some good news. I'm still married (I'll get to that in a bit) and my work situation has improved so much. I went through a rocky period of ...

A.   3 June 2012: Hiya firstly i hope to not inflict what i believe is the right answer but only help you to see the right thing for yourself. i want first to talk about the "dildo" message on the screen. And i will say this, when you go onto chat room you CA... (read in full...)

Dealing With Your Boyfriend Moving Away

Q.   Hello Everyone.. I Am Looking For Help With Me and ' My Boyfriend.. We've Been Together For 9 Right About 10 Months Now and ' He Moved Last Thursday To Oklahoma.. An I Don't Know What It Is But When He Calls Me I Always End Up Drowning In My Own ...

A.   3 June 2012: Hi. I hope you can stay strong and focus on what you want. It's only been a while since he's moved so you'll begin to feel better in time. Its very emotional in the beginning. I would encourage you to socialise with friends again as you'll n... (read in full...)

Would a FWB work for me? I only miss the physical part of a relationship

Q.   Right everyone seems to think I'm scared of being alone because I've had two serious relationships by the time in 17, but the thing is I love being single But when I am single I miss having someone to hug kiss and have sex with so do you think if ...

A.   3 June 2012: It doesn't make you a bad person. It makes you human, curious infact. Havinga lot of sexual partners may cause you to loose some self-respect for yourself so i'd advise against it. Also, you must be really careful (use condoms always) and some... (read in full...)

My ex likes my friend and she knew I still liked him!

Q.   Well basically me and my ex attended the same party last night and I was hoping to say something to him which may have helped get our relationship back , and I told my friend that I planned to say something, but as the night progressed she came and ...

A.   3 June 2012: It's difficult sometimes to stop being annoyed at people when you are hurting. Try and think if you really want to be with this guy? Was the relationship really that good? This might help you re-evaluate how you ACTUALLY feel about your ex. ... (read in full...)

How to help me deal while helping depressed baby daddy

Q.   My bf and i were together over 3 years and we have a 2 year old son, my bf is an addict and he has wanted help but decided to wait bc of pending legal issues, he has anxiety and also just lost his dad so now depression. recently he has drifted away ...

A.   3 June 2012: Hi, I'm lisa-Marie a 20 year old with a three year old son. i've been through something the same as you a boyfriend 9and baby daddy) who was a previous addict and also suffers with depression. Depression is a horendous disease and very difficu... (read in full...)

My partner has a nylon fetish and a weird swimsuit fetish, which involved HIM wearing a woman's swimsuit and not me!!

Q.   I'm 32, my partner's 34, we've been together for 4 years now. Our sex life's been on the wane recently since my partner found a new fetish... nylon. He sits looking at pictures of it and people wearing it on the computer (doesn't matter who to him),...

A.   3 June 2012: Hiya, first of all by the sounds of it you have been very caring for him and supportive which is great. You are probably hoping that this fetish disintegrates into nothing sooner rather than later. maybe its the feel of the material or mayb... (read in full...)

My boyfriend seems to have lost interest in having sex with me. What can I do?

Q.   I have been seeing this guy for 2 years now and for the past few months he has shown no interest in having sex. when i confront him about it he states that he thinks its due to stress at work. we havent had sex for 2 months and i pracically beg him ...

A.   3 June 2012: it's important to listen to him aswell as yourself. Sometimes people can get very paranoid in a relationship, i know because i've been searching myself for the answers to this very question. but maybe it is what he says, stress. and i... (read in full...)

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