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Dating him over 8 months and he refuses to let me to meet his family!!

Q.   When should you expect to meet his family? We have been dating for over 8 months. I have met his son but no one else. He has met my whole family and alot of my friends. He works with his family in the family business just down the road from my wor...

A.   26 June 2008: it is not his family that he dont want you to meet there is a bigger and darker secret and you need to sit him down and talk to him ... (read in full...)

I'm 13 and need to know..where can me and my bf have sex??? And are we too young to have sex?

Q.   Me and my boyfriend have been dating for about 4 months.I'm 13 and he's almost 16. I think were ready to have sex...we've hooked up before but Ive always stopped him. Whoever awnsers this question could you please tell me *where we could have sex...

A.   26 June 2008: there is no way yourself is ready not even him and if you decide to go through with it he is breaking the law you are underage, just think twice before you do anything.... (read in full...)

He keeps hurting me--but I love him!! What should I do?

Q.   Me and my boyfriend, after going out a bit told me if i wanted to go to his house and i said yes after a while of hanging out he was pressuring me to have sex with him but after i told him no he got really mad and start pinning me to wall and ...

A.   26 June 2008: firsty this man does not care about you to pressure you into having sex with him, and when you say that you didnt want to have sex with him and he made you this is rape. if he really cared about you he would never hurt a hair on your body and ... (read in full...)

Is my boyfriend being disrespectful, or am I an egomaniac?

Q.   Hi. My boyfriedn and I have been together for 2 and a half years. He originally pursued me, and I over a few months of dating totally fell for him, and we've been very close since. Initially he treated me like a goddess and seemed to worship ...

A.   26 June 2008: hi there i think that maybe you should seperate because how do you no that hes not cheating on you and thats why he dont want 2 move in so soon anymore. or maybe you should just tell him exactly how you feel and give him an ultimatum he has 2 sp... (read in full...)

She's starting to act interested and almost jealous now, after rejecting me! What to do?

Q.   I've liked this girl for a LONG time and pursued and let her know many times, only to be rejected.. we are still friends but now.. when eventually I've just given up and started getting on with someone else really well she is starting to act ...

A.   25 June 2008: you've hit the nail on the head she had her chance and blew it. It seems that you have found a nice girl dont let this woman get to close keep her at arms reach with dirt under your finger nails. and enjoy your time with your new partner good luck ... (read in full...)

I love my teacher madly but now she's pregnant! All I can do is cry...

Q.   Okay... I am a fifteen year old female student at a secondary school in essex. I've always been academic and decided not to get involved in relationships to focus on my school work. But then in September '07 I fell in love with my new science ...

A.   25 June 2008: listen to me there is nothing wrong with how you are feeling but by the sounds of it you are stalking your teacher you eather get to grips with yourself in time you will enjoy the company of the oppisite sex if not there is nothing wrong with being ... (read in full...)

We agreed to take it slow, I want to think of a possible relationship in the future, but I can't seem to tell if he wants to be with me or not!

Q.   I have been seeing a guy for 2 months. Prior to him I had been on several bad dates and wasn't looking for anything serious, but felt different with him. He on the other hand went through a break-up 7 months before we meet and later after we were ...

A.   25 June 2008: it seems that your bloke is still loved up with his past his ex sounds like she has moved on were he has been hurt and is scared to make a commitment you can either wait for him to come to his sences or move on there plenty more fish in the sea ... (read in full...)

Recently my mate's been flirting with me, how do I find out if he really loves me?

Q.   i've known this guy for three years and we're really good mates,and i'm in love with him, lately he's been flirting with me or so my friends say, but i don't know, and i really want him to see me in that way. How do i find out if he does love me? ...

A.   25 June 2008: dont listen to idle gossip at the end of the day you will lose a good friend is it really worth it you need to talk to him let him now how you feel if he feels the same then go for it but remember you could lose a good friend your friend lu... (read in full...)

I'm beginning to find my girlfriend less attractive. Is there something wrong with me?

Q.   Hi there, I'm 19 and I've been in a relationship for the past 2 years. To start with I loved being with this girl, however now that we've been together for so long I'm starting to feel like it's not going anywhere. Embarrising as it is to say she...

A.   25 June 2008: No there is nothing worng with you. after all you have been with your girlfriend for two years and not "slept" together what i think you should do is try talking to her if you love her about being ready to sleep together if you dont love her tell ... (read in full...)

I'm 6 mths pregnant and I hate what's inside of me, what do I do?

Q.   im 17 and 6 month pregnant i dont feel i love this child i hate whats inside of me what do i do ...

A.   25 June 2008: if you have decided to have the baby then it part of you and 0nly you and your future and you want the best for your future. then going to make it the best future for you and your baby. or if its too late to get rid of it and you got to have it a... (read in full...)

Young People Having Sex

Q.   Does anybody else find it as ridiculous as I the age people nowadays are losing their virginity? I am sixteen and have no intention of having sex while I'm still a teenager. It saddens me whenever I hear of girls (and guys) my age running off toge...

A.   25 June 2008: yes i totaly agree with carrie, losing your viginity is supposed to be a very special moment, with someone you truly love. young girls should not feel ashamed that that havent lost it yet and should be proud of themselfs... (read in full...)

How important are looks?

Q.   I was wondering some people's opinions... Well, one of my friends is extremely obsessed with the way she looks. She claims that if she were to ever let herself go after marriage and kids, then her husband would no longer find her physically attra...

A.   25 June 2008: looks are everything to some people but looks are not what counts. its whats on the inside that counts, you could be the ugliest person ever but that doesnt mean that your not a nice person and as many say looks can be deceiving and you should never ... (read in full...)

Young People Having Sex

Q.   Does anybody else find it as ridiculous as I the age people nowadays are losing their virginity? I am sixteen and have no intention of having sex while I'm still a teenager. It saddens me whenever I hear of girls (and guys) my age running off toge...

A.   25 June 2008: this is a new era which saddens me to think that youngsters today are pressured into haveing sex either to fit into a group or to satisfiy friends just so you can be like them at the end of the day its you and only you that can make that decision. ... (read in full...)

I still love her. Could it be different if we got back together?

Q.   I would appreciate some advice. My girlfriend ended our 1 1/2 year relationship about 6 weeks ago. We broke up, i feel, because of me constantly arguing with her, my trust issues with her (which i had no reason to not trust her)i suppose i took her ...

A.   25 June 2008: you should get over her and start dealing with your insecurities before you try getting back wit her. you should try just being friends and see how it goes from there... (read in full...)

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