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writes:ok well I am 18 and no one ever seems interested in me and I am putting myself out there but I am about to just give up and quit trying to date. I need some help on how to get people. I am bi btw Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 November 2009): Stop looking and you're more likely to find... I've always found that to be true. Give up, and accept that... and then see what happens!Keep a confident attitude, even if it's that your FINE being alone! That should do it!
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reader, mosamo6 +, writes (2 November 2009):
mosamo6 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI do but I won't go to far with a guy maybe just head but no where else
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 November 2009): Well, I can't help you with the bi sexual thing because I can't imagine having the whole human race to choose from.
I think it is fine that you just give up on dating and finding someone because sometimes the harder you look, the more desperate and discouraged you come accross.
I would just put your focus on yourself and on life. Making a happy and productive life for yourself. Find what you are passionate about and whether or not it is your vocation or your avocation it doesn't matter.
When you do that you become interesting and attractive to people becaue they can see the real you, and someone will show that attraction and you can build from there.
Being bi sexual though I think you need to be upfront about that with your potential partners, and you might have a lot of explaining to do to someone who is not bi.
Being bi sexual does not mean that you cannot be in a committed relationship if you choose to be and you might need to explain that to those who think you swing both ways so you will never be satisfied with just one person.
Would you be satisfied by the way? People would be concerned with that so you may have to be reassuring about what it is you are looking for.
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