A
female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:There is a man that I'm interested in and he is working with me I asked him today in a text if he needed me and his reply was ( more than you know ) what was he meaning?
View related questions:
text Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
female
reader, Atsweet1 +, writes (6 June 2013):
 If I told a employee I fancy this it would clearly mean I want you. I am highly interested. I desire you. Yes I would like to get to know you in always possible morr than you know. Its a burning desire and if you with it he is and has been with it. He waiting in you. I feel well know from experience that if you just let the attraction and your personality be your self it will happen. He may ask you out but if it was a issue of cold or bad communication he will not. So when you two are in flirting at work mode ask him whats up and let him know whats going on. Seeing if he wants to go out and have a drink or coffee is a icebreaker and it make things easier for him and you.
A
female
reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (5 June 2013):
 Ask him if he would like to go out for a drink or coffee after work one day.
...............................
A
reader, anonymous, writes (5 June 2013): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionEyeswideopen, Well it's kinda of a long story. But we was to meet a few years ago for a date and it never happened so I guess when we talked after that day I was cold to him and now that we are working together again I have been around him more and yes he still flirts when he wrote more then you know my replied you had your chance and his reply was he didn't remember it like that so I'm really just wondering how to handle this do I ask him out or wait on him to ask me and if I should ask him how to ask ?
...............................
A
male
reader, Serpico +, writes (5 June 2013):
Reason #113 I hate social media/texting for human communication.
Reports vary from 50-90% of human communication being non-verbal. If he said this to you face to face, I guarantee you that youd know exactly what he meant.
Ergo, Id ask him face to face
...............................
A
male
reader, Relationship.Chef +, writes (5 June 2013):
 He meant that you should speak. You know, without the cellphone, in person, one-on-one?...
And, as you're speaking with him, you might ask him "Hey, I'd love for us to grab a drink. You game?"
(It's called "Communication 101")
...............................
A
female
reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (5 June 2013):
Were you asking if he needed you in a work related way or in an emotional sense?
...............................
|
