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Gaining your lover's trust back!

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13 October 2009: Ok so you lost your partners trust… whether it may be resulted from cheating or lying, it's gone from you now. I have plenty of experience in this topic for I have been through it myself and I was the one who lost trust for my partner. Once you lose ...

I'm not attracted to my girlfriend sexually. Should I tell her this? Do I tell her the truth?

Q.   I'm in love with my girlfriend but i'm not sexually attracted to her? What happens is that i loose interest half way through sex, but i didn't want her to know the real reason and made out that's because i'm unfit, smoking and drinking too much. ...

A.   21 April 2010: this is simple if you feel this way with a woman let her go the most important thing to do is to be honest about it at all times it helps trust if u lie u mite as well ask for drama.....by the way are any of you guys porn addicts because i thought ... (read in full...)

I'm not attracted to my girlfriend sexually. Should I tell her this? Do I tell her the truth?

Q.   I'm in love with my girlfriend but i'm not sexually attracted to her? What happens is that i loose interest half way through sex, but i didn't want her to know the real reason and made out that's because i'm unfit, smoking and drinking too much. ...

A.   21 April 2010: To all you men I understand that this is a problem because it is happening to me as well I have been married for a year now and my husband is not attracted to me anymore and he too loses interest halfway through. I just want to say this don't just ... (read in full...)

Gaining your lover's trust back!

Q.   Ok so you lost your partners trust… whether it may be resulted from cheating or lying, it's gone from you now. I have plenty of experience in this topic for I have been through it myself and I was the one who lost trust for my partner. Once you lose ...

A.   15 October 2009: Hi Alisa, that is very true and I know this from personal experience. I’ve had a situation with my partner whereas I came across messages on an internet profile from another woman, although he claims it was a long time ago and he is different now I ... (read in full...)

Gaining your lover's trust back!

Q.   Ok so you lost your partners trust… whether it may be resulted from cheating or lying, it's gone from you now. I have plenty of experience in this topic for I have been through it myself and I was the one who lost trust for my partner. Once you lose ...

A.   15 October 2009: Hi cat118, Thank you very much for your compliment. In my opinion of your post, you did not discover all of that by accident it was meant for you to know about that, iv'e had a similiar situation happen with my partner. Do you know if he has cheated ... (read in full...)

Could he still be interested or am I just crazy?

Q.   Hey aunts, I am 24 and rather inexperienced for a girl of my age. Earlier this year, I met a guy I really liked, but after a month I still was not ready to have sex with him and we parted ways (it was not cordial). Over the summer I saw him at a...

A.   14 October 2009: Ok I will tell you what I read into this situation. If this guy really liked you he would keep in contact with you on a regular basis definitely, it sounds to me that it was just a fling to him and he is kind unlike most guys to not cut you off ... (read in full...)

I cannot make my girlfriend orgasm no matter how hard I try!

Q.   basicly my problem is i cannot satisfy my girlfreind no matter what i try i cannot make her orgasm i recently found out she has been faking them to make me feel better and this has made me feel rather bad knowing that i cannot satisfy her i j...

A.   14 October 2009: she may just feel a little uncomfortable doing it in front of you, remember being able to climax has a lot to do with your mind. You should take the first step and put the vibrator on her and not verbally but let her know you indeed want to please ... (read in full...)

I cannot make my girlfriend orgasm no matter how hard I try!

Q.   basicly my problem is i cannot satisfy my girlfreind no matter what i try i cannot make her orgasm i recently found out she has been faking them to make me feel better and this has made me feel rather bad knowing that i cannot satisfy her i j...

A.   14 October 2009: First of all don't feel bad about this it is very hard to get a female to cum try giving her oral sex; if you have never done it before you would have to research and practice because nothing is worst than having to sit there and you know you are ... (read in full...)

It feels like her love for me is fading...what can I do? Can I fix things?

Q.   Ok this is probably going to be a long story. So Like a year ago I was going out with this girl she's in the 10th grade now and I'm in the 9th, We broke up some time ago. Well about 6 months ago I started seeing her sister and we are still together...

A.   13 October 2009: First of all the first paragraph you wrote tells me alot about you... she is the sister of your ex and what goes around comes around. Secondly you are both very young and she may not know what she wants right now try seeing other people there are ... (read in full...)

I want to give him another chance, but I feel like I deserve better

Q.   I was dating this guy for a little more than a year. One night he got really drunk and hooked up with 8 girls in one night! I couldnt believe it. He was my first love. I became so depressed and on top of that he never called me the day after, ...

A.   13 October 2009: My dear, this feeling you are feeling is only temporary! I was in a similar situation, and I made the right decision in leaving him. Yea for a while I thought about him but every day I would feel freer from that love feeling. A year ago I met ... (read in full...)

Still with my first love, but we've lost the spark

Q.   I have been in a serious relationship for almost four years now with my boyfriend and loved every minute except the sex part. I was a 15 year old Freshman dating a 17 year old Junior in high school. Now I'm graduated and at college with him, but it ...

A.   13 October 2009: the best advice i can give you is to talk to him and ask for a break. In order for this relationship to work you would have to experience other people this will give you time to decide what you really want. loosen up and do what your heart tells you ... (read in full...)

Cant cope with the images of my wife with another man

Q.   Please can anyone out there help me. After twenty years of marrage my wife had an affair and it has destroyed our marrage.I absolutely adored the woman and this has devastated me . I am only a shell of the man i used to be.I am now smoking heavly ...

A.   13 October 2009: my first gut to tell you would be to leave her and move on, because you are right to not trust her anymore if she really loved you she would not mess around on you it would not be your fault if you never trusted her again or even if you did the same ... (read in full...)

He has trouble staying hard during sex... but not oral.. why?

Q.   when i am having sex, i can give my guy oral sex and he gets erect, but when he penetrates me after a minute he goes soft, my question is why does this happen?...

A.   13 October 2009: i have that same problem my newlywed husband gets rock hard when i am giving him oral sex the whole time until he cums but when we are having regular sex he goes soft and has to pull out and jerk off and sometimes doesnt even cum at all. it may be ... (read in full...)

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