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I still run into him a couple times a month, do you think I lost him forever?

Q.   i broke up with my boyfriend a week ago, we were together on and off for a year!! we lived together. the reason i broke up with him is because he started talkin to many different types of women at work wantin to go to their place and hang out and ...

A.   22 April 2010: thanks for the advise he is added on my second line, he has his own phone, the thing is to pay bill every month i have to givr my pin and num and other info that i do not want to give him that is why he has to give me the money every month when the ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend lied to me about going to work...

Q.   My boyfriend lied to me about going to work, he said he had work from 2 to 5 and lied about it instead i think he went to his friends house and played video games, he came over at 5 and stayed the rest of the night acting all affectionate so i knew ...

A.   7 February 2010: My boyfriend lied to me about going to work, he said he had work from 2 to 5 and lied about it instead i think he went to his friends house and played video games, he came over at 5 and stayed the rest of the night acting all affectionate so i knew ... (read in full...)

I am 22 he is 35, what do you think?

Q.   Hey there it is me again, so being 22 i am thinking about dating a guy that is 35, do u think the age difference is to much? i am just tired of all the immature jerks that i have dated in the pass, they have cheated on me, lied and used me ...

A.   26 October 2009: Thanks for all of your help!!!!... (read in full...)

Cheating soulmate and fiance. Am I mad for still thinking of taking him back??

Q.   My first real love i met in my mid 20's. It was instant intense love since the day we met we never left each others side and got along like life long friends with an extreme passion for one another. Everything went perfect till 6 months into the ...

A.   23 October 2009: my motto, ONCE A CHEATER, ALWAYS A CHEATER!!!! GET AWAY FROM HIM!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!... (read in full...)

We havent spoke in nearly a month, does this mean its over?

Q.   I am in a long term relationship. However I got mad with him, and I sent him a message saying that he might one day not hear from me again. He never replied my text. Its now close to a month since I last heard from him. Does this mean its over? I ...

A.   20 October 2009: I quite agree with DESTINY23, the same thing happened to me there was no communication between me and my ex for like a month and a half and then he called, lol!! he will call u believe me, they always do, just hang in there! go out and enjoy your ... (read in full...)

How do you socialize and make friends? I feel hopeless.

Q.   I guess I don't understand - how do you socialize with people and make friends? It feels impossible. People don't want to be your friend, they've already got enough. They don't want to take a risk on you - you could be crazy or dangerous and they're ...

A.   17 October 2009: I know how you are feeling, the same thing is happened to me,i moved from south America to the US like 5 years ago, and it took me a long time to make some friends, things will look up for you just be confident, all you need to do is get out there ... (read in full...)

Do you think he wants me back?

Q.   Hi I have question for your guys. I broke up with my boyfriend for 5 days.I don't know what he really want. He told me he want me to get out of his life. He said thank you for loving him and he love me too.But its not work out me and him. so he said ...

A.   15 October 2009: Honey, he just wants you for sex( the whole friends with benefits crap), just to use you! do not lose your self respect for that guy!! he wants you out of his life, make sure you do get out because he will just be playing with your emotions and you ... (read in full...)

What does my ex want?

Q.   Hi there, my boyfriend and I split up about 6 weeks ago. I ended things with him because he had admitted he had feelings for another girl. Since then he has kissed this girl and they have been texting but nothing has really happened between them. He ...

A.   15 October 2009: FORGET ABOUT HIM,although i know it will be hard but you can do it!!!!!!!!!!! That happened to me, he likes another girl, but still talks to u just in case nothing happens with that girl he knows you will always be there to fall back on, he is ... (read in full...)

Could he still be interested or am I just crazy?

Q.   Hey aunts, I am 24 and rather inexperienced for a girl of my age. Earlier this year, I met a guy I really liked, but after a month I still was not ready to have sex with him and we parted ways (it was not cordial). Over the summer I saw him at a...

A.   14 October 2009: i think you should forget about him, you not ready to have sex and guys parted ways, if he really liked you as you liked him he would have stayed and not parted! And why did you apologize for not having sex with him, by not having sex with him ... (read in full...)

Did my text ruin our chance to renew our relationship?

Q.   Sorry that it is a little long, anyway i dated this guy for a few months he lost his job and i helped him out but after a while i could not take it anymore he just started asking me for money over and over again i felt like his mother, but i still ...

A.   14 October 2009: thanks to all those that have responded to my post, i left him hopefully he leaves me alone for good!... (read in full...)

Sex is still very painful after five years, and he's frustrated

Q.   Hello, my problem is completely enfuriating and I'm not sure what to do. My boyfriend and I have been trying to have sex for ages but it really hurts me. I know I am being completely rubbish and probably entirely selfish in not just getting on ...

A.   14 October 2009: Umm being a premed student u seem to be suffering from Vaginismus,an involuntary spasm of the muscles surrounding the vagina. Symptoms:Vaginal penetration during sex is difficult or impossible. 2: Vaginal pain is common during sexual intercou... (read in full...)

Should I be concerned that my boyfriend is texting his ex?

Q.   My boyfriend text his ex twice saying "I dreamt about you last night" Should this concern me...or is this just friendly?...

A.   14 October 2009: Yes you should be concerned, he is with you now why his he texting his ex? I was in a situation like that and that to me shows that he still have feelings for her because if he did not he would not even be dreaming about her period!!! instead he ... (read in full...)

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