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writes:I've known a boy in school for 5 years now, and while we've never been close friends, we spoke to each other and had a laugh every now and again. He used to tease me jokingly towards the end of y11, and we had a really good laugh.Now we're at the same college, and I was waiting for a friend outside and we got chatting cos he teased me about something, he then said sorry, denied being the one who teased me lots in school (even though it was)gave me a hug and we talked loads.Now whenever he sees me, he says hey and smiles, which he never did before, and he said he's 'gonna be nice to me now'.I'm getting a bit of a crush on him now, so it may just be me reading too much into things, but could he fancy me?
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 February 2008): Just to updateOn a lesson break, he asked me to sit by him on the floor, we chatted loads and he was 'impressed with my music taste'and he was really nice and stuff, and when he went, he said, i like you girl, i like you, and smiled.so confused like.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 December 2007): i think he fancys you!!! boys usually tease when they like you but now that hes older i think he sees that teasing you might upset you -- most boys are only considerate if they like you...and the smile thing is another huge sign!When a person walks up to a person they only consider as a friend they might smile the odd time but not much because they are so used to them, but when you like someone you cant stop smiling (when im around a boy i like i cant stop smiling).Flirt with him a bit more and see where it goes!!good luck!x
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 December 2007): Maybe - but its hard to tell! Everyone shows how they fancy someone in a different way.
Seeing as you fancy him - why don't you start to become really good friends. . . And then maybe he might start to see you as more than just that??? possibly....
Good luck whatever you do x x x
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reader, kenny + ♥, writes (3 December 2007):
 Its a difficult one to answer, he could just be being friendly, or feel bad for teasing you. Make a friend out him, next time he smiles at you smile back and try to catch his eye too. Get chatting to him and be interested in things he does, or is going to do. When you feel you have built up a good raport then ask him if he fancies doing something one time, then take if from there.
All the best x
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 December 2007): no, i think he is just a flirty boy that fancys talking to girls. i think he likes you as a friend but nothing more... sorry love
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reader, calamitysil +, writes (3 December 2007):
 Hard to say, he may just be being friendly! Give him a bit of time, but don't be too pushy. You don't want to scare him off!
You could always start talking about a really good movie that you've heard about and want to see, and casually ask if he's got anything planned on a specific day, and if he'd like to come too? That would start the ball rolling in a non threatening, friendly way ;-)
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