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anonymous
writes:i have been in a relation with a guy since 3 n a half yrs.he used to be my lecturer in college.he is a very good guy and cares a lot about me.both of us are from different places and from different castes {in my country some families are quite orthodox about caste}when i talk about marriage he seems to be less committed towards that.he says that his mom would 'nt accept a gal from another caste!.my family is not at al orthodox and they support my decision.i know he loves me but he is not ready to marry me.i often fight with him saying that he has just passed some gud time with me.he refuses this alligation.i tried keeping away from him as in my country marrige is the basic need for a guy and gal to stay together and make a family and going against marrige is condemnd mostly by all.but he keeps calling me and says that he loves me.i love to marry him and have kids with him and make our own wonderful family.he too loves me and knows my intension,but just laughs off these days as he thinks sometimes that am very kiddish!am 26 and am youngest at my home and have got little pampered bt am not kiddish about my love with him..can anybdy hep me out ?i wnt him to b my husband and live happily with him Reply to this Question
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (29 September 2010):
 Well you just answered your own question, you said you would need to marry this man before setteling down and having children with him as its what your family believe in and you wouldnt go against there beliefs, well its the same for this man, he is not wanting to go against his family to marry you and to be honest he probably never will want to so i think the best thing to do is go your seperate ways and end the relationship as you are never going to get what you want from this man.
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