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Contraception -- condoms and what else?

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Question - (22 September 2013) 5 Answers - (Newest, 22 September 2013)
A female United Kingdom age 26-29, *ovehelp2000 writes:

When having sex should i use one or two forms of contraception just to be on the safe side?? I know i should ask him to use a condom but what other contraception should i use???

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A reader, anonymous, writes (22 September 2013):

Before you consider having sex with this guy.

Are you sure that your ready?

if he is pressuring you to do this please don't do it.

and have you been in a relationship for a long time?

long time is something from about a year on wards?

if you haven't been in a relationship for a long time then please think carefully before having sex with this guy.

Also I would recommend for you to go and make an appointment with your GP to discuss about contraception and to make sure that you get the right contraception that will be right for you. Yes make sure he wears a condom. Even if he wears a condom it is possible that you could still get some of the std and sti's

If you are going to have sex make sure its protected.

Have fun and stay safe

Good luck from auntiebambam :)

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (22 September 2013):

I would also talk to a doctor. There are things out there that last for so long or have different schedules for taking. I always like the uterine implants that last for up to 5-10 years. You don't have any worries, your period stops, and you can have it removed early if you decide to have a baby. Condoms are nice for short term relationships, but once you meet a good guy you know doesn't cheat, you might decide to go without them. With them implant, you can forget about a baby until you pursue having one intentionally.

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A female reader, Honeypie United States + , writes (22 September 2013):

Honeypie agony auntI would second that you talk to your doctor.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (22 September 2013):

I agree with Tisha--the methods you choose will depend on what's best for you :)

I track my cycles using the fertility awareness/symptothermal method, which works really great for me because I know when I ovulate and then I just abstain for that week :)

If you combine that with a condom use--you will be extra safe!

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A female reader, Tisha-1 United States +, writes (22 September 2013):

Tisha-1 agony auntHi there, you are asking a question which we can't really answer, as you are an individual with specific needs. It would be a great idea for you to pop into your doctor's and have a consultation on your best options.

As you are in the UK, and have access to the NHS, I have found you a great link which can help you get started: http://www.nhs.uk/conditions/contraception-guide/pages/contraception.aspx

Best wishes to you!

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