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writes:Ok im quite confused. I don't know if this lad on my course likes me or not. I admit one minute i have feelings for him and the next i don't so im confused on that to. It just he sorta give m esings and other times he doesn't. He not your typical lad he don't go out drinking and trying to get girls hes infact he said today its just the way he is but he doesn't really care if he stays single. Hes a lovely lad but seriously annoying at times, in a sweet way. Now he always jokes around with everyone not only me and at one point he did change seats and come and sit opposite me. Now i've noticed that he looks most people in the eye when he talk to them but he seems to hold it abit logner with me unless its just my imagination, and also when we go off to class(everyone) he sometimes goes off ahead and i normally follow especially as its raining now so i want to get there quickly he'll see me and then continue walking but yet again he does that with alot of people. But yet today when we were all going home he drives and we get the bus and so he goes stright away and i wait for the others and i walked to the end of the corridor and waited then went abit further and he came back, saw i was walking and then went again as if he was looking to see where we were but why? i seriously don't know if its in my head or not but times if im sitting on the end of the table and hes next to me sometimes his leg touches mine, sometimes i move it but im not that bothered cause i really think its just there, no reason for it but he doesn't move it for some reason. its just the looking at me i've noticed before if hes looking straight ahead and im sitting opposite him then he will sorta look as if hes looking thru me but then other times hes actually looking at me and ive never noticed him doing that with others. I'm so confused. He honestly doesn't seem bothered about getting a gf but then again what are these signs. I don't know, what do i do? what do i think? Reply to this Question
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reader, Neboraic +, writes (19 January 2008):
you need to fix the beginning of the story it doesnt make sense. I assume youve told him you like him, you dont have many options after that other than asking him if he likes you, or asking him out(which are actually the same option) or doing nothing. Living in limbo must be annoying. Even though he said hes not bothered about gtting a girlfriend, that doesnt mean hes against it, you have a chance.
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reader, angelbbabe7490 +, writes (19 January 2008):
 aw, it looks like you have a little crush on this fine lad you are talking about. he seems to be the independent type of guy and you have already figured out that he doesnt mind being single. He may be use to being on his own, and it could be hard for you to change that in him. Being an independent guy on his own seems to attract you towards him. he seems like he could do without a girlfriend and it looks like you want to be that girl to change this about him. you may be biting off a little too much than you can swallow. just remember that doing this takes time and not only time but patience as well. if you are willing to wait for him than that is your choice. i was in a very simular situation with a guy that i liked. when i felt like he liked me i backed off, but when i realized that he loved his single life.. that was what made me attracted to him. Even though i will always have this crush on him, i am still not together with him. we are basically best friends and love each other to death.. but im just not able to express the way i feel towards him. understand that there might be a reason for him and his independence. try to talk to him about his past relationships,and maybe even his life back at home. there can be plently of factors that make him feel like he doesnt want a relationship. the truth is that this guy must be interested in you.. he will keep giving you these signs as well. the next time he leans against you.. dont pull away lean your leg towards him too. see what his reaction is and give a confident smile. i wish you the best of luck and i hope everything works out for you.
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