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writes:so I am 19 yes old I have been with a guy who is my first love, we were together for 2 years like he is the first guy I ever kissed. we had met when I was sixteen and he was fifteen, he will be eighteen this September bit like we broke up maybe a month ago and for a while we still talked but then he'd ignore me and then talk to me again but I did things with him...we fooled around and he made it so amazing telling me how much he loves me and what not, but after a few times of that I decided to leave the state for a baca and he said for me to call and I did then he said call over the weekend so I did and then he didn't answer and like I ended up testing him and he said he was talking to another girl and that just broke my heart, but come to find out like his mom nor dad have heard anything of a girl.so basically my question is how can I get over him like how do I stop myself from getting the urge to call him, like I call him everyday and I know I'm being ignored but I just love him so much I am confused so if you can help me please do cause I need it
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (24 August 2010):
 I was around your age when I was trying to get over my first love, he sounded a lot like yours in fact not good for me at all. First loves can be hard to get over even more so than regular break-ups. I surrounded myself with friends I couldn't really alone, we would have girls night, drive around singing songs at the top of our lungs, they took away my phone so I wouldn't call him, some retail therapy, went to the gym got to thinking about all the lies then I was running really hard on the treadmill like I was running away from him, made sure I was busy majority of the time so I didn't pick up my phone to see if he called. Turn off your phone and put it some where, forget about it for a little while, block him on Facebook and Myspace. Doesn't happen overnight and it's going to take some self discipline but it's definitely possible.
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