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Confused by my friend and my feelings about this incident...what should I think?

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Question - (29 May 2008) 1 Answers - (Newest, 29 May 2008)
A female United Kingdom age 26-29, anonymous writes:

hi

i have a problem and i am hopin u can help me so here it goes

rite i ave a friend who is so kind to me and she is always there and that and we have sleepovers and stuff and she is pretty and i think i fancy her a bit but not that much. and bout couple weeks ago wen she slept round mine we were playin a game where we got dressed up and put make-up on and that and pretended to go to a party and we had a great laugh and then we sat dwn and talked and then i felt this thing on my leg so i brushed it off and i realized it was her hand so i ignored it thinkin she put it there by accident. so as the night went on we had loads more fun but then as i sat dwn i sat on her hand by accident so i sed sorri but as i stood up so she culd move it she pinched it so i sed "oi cheeky" and she laughed then that was that we went bed then she went ome the next day

then she slept agen the following weekend and the same sort of things happend agen but this time she lent i to kiss me and i pulled back and sed " wot the f**k do u think ur doin" and she sed "im sorri i dnt no wot happend" then we sort of laughed it of and she bought up the subject of "wuld u eva be a lesbian" so i sed "wot sort of question is that" and she "i was just askin" and i sed " i dunno" and asked her and she sed "prob if i couldnt find a bf" then she sed to me "ifu were a lesbian wuld u eva go out wiv me" and i sed "wot is this" and she sed "dunno" and that was that

then it was time 4 bed so i layed there thinkin of wot she sed and y she sed it and as i did i felt sumthin touch my leg agen and i looked at it was her hand and i took it at put it on the bed. then i rolled ova to face her so it wuld be more comfy for me i closed my eyes and she let and kissed me agen so i pulled back and sed "wot the f**k r u doin" ovy whisperin coz evry 1 else was asleep and she dint say nothin and kissed me agen and pulled my head so tight i couldnt brake free

i am so confused coz then afta she stopped and turned and sed "nite" then she went to sleep

so i lay there thinkin of wot happend and for bout 5 mins i thought did i actually want it to happen

i am so confused plz help me

thankz

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A reader, anonymous, writes (29 May 2008):

How old is your friend?

You're very young.

You don't seem to be as interested in it as she is. If you don't feel comfortable with it then simply tell your friend that you're straight and that you think she is great as a friend but that you don't have those kinds of feelings for her.

If you decided that you do like her then don't be ashamed.

It would be very difficult for you to know your sexual orientation at your age so maybe you'd feel more comfortable waiting for a few years.

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