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Confused but wish to see her again

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Question - (11 June 2023) 2 Answers - (Newest, 16 June 2023)
A female South Africa age 26-29, anonymous writes:

Dear Cupid,

It is amazing to see this platform still standing. As it has helped me a lot in the past, back when I was still 16 years old and I haven't been here for a while. How time flies because I'm now 27 years old.

Today, I am here because I met a girl at a club that I made out with in the bathroom. We kissed passionately in front of others in the ladies rest room. Then we exchanged numbers.

Ever since that incident we never met again but we texted a little bit. I got overwhelmed when she sent me her naked pictures. I stepped back because I felt insecure. I have never wanted a girl in my life like this. I normally date men.

It's been weeks not texting and I can't stop thinking about her. I have never felt this way about a girl before. The plan initially was to meet again but we couldn't. She seemed to be occupied with "Friends" she says. But I want her so bad. I don't know what to do or what is happening to me. I just broke up with my boyfriend but I met her while still dating this guy. I miss her and I want to hold her and kiss her again.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (16 June 2023):

I say go for it and see if you like it, but also be careful and aware-she is probably not the relationship type if she is so quick to make out with a stranger. So my advice is to pursue if you really want to, but with caution!

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A male reader, kenny United Kingdom + , writes (13 June 2023):

kenny agony auntI think you are lusting after her, and unlike the emotions of love lust is quite often short lived and these feelings will dissipate of their own accord.

And I think that's exactly what you should do, forget about her and let these emotions fade away. You also have only just broke up with your boyfriend so you are in the re-bound stage and your feelings and emotions are everywhere at the moment.

I get the feeling she is one who will pick you up, put you down, and always keep letting you down, so my advice would be forget her and give yourself time to get over your relationship.

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