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Coming to an end... or rough patch?

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Question - (9 February 2008) 3 Answers - (Newest, 8 November 2010)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Dear Cupid,

I am completly in love with my boyfriend of almost a year and a half and I want to be with him forever but latley we have been having some issues... getting in a lot of little fights over nothing, been to busy with our schedules to hang out, and barely trying to work out our problems. I feel like our relationship is dwindling and I don't know how to fix it. What should I do?

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A female reader, KathlynBull United States +, writes (8 November 2010):

I'm having the same difficulties as you are my fiance Phil and I have been together for nearly a year lately all we've done is fight but honestly I think it's made him and I stronger as a couple if you can get through the stupid fights then it means you can get through pretty much anything :) I hope things get better for you I really do.

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A female reader, Laura1318 Malaysia +, writes (9 February 2008):

Laura1318 agony auntJust respect each other's opinions and try to see from his perspective. A man and a woman is different and they don't see the same on many issues.

If you don't agree, just agree to disagree and move on. There is no instant answers and you end up arguing and it will become personal on your side.

Leave those contentious issues alone for you can argue for years and still you won't agree....

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A male reader, niceguy07 United States +, writes (9 February 2008):

niceguy07 agony auntwell i just got out of one of the same kind, but the difference being not only did we have "nothing arguments" but she had started talking to another man. we were together for 13 ans a half months and my work and school schedule may have had something to do with it. what i realized is that i am young and so is she, i cannot expect her to be waiting for me to get out of work like we are a married couple and i dont want that either. we are working on being friends, and just friends. i think u tow should do the same. take it back a notch and just be close friends. i have yet to be able to move on to a new woman, one cuz i have no time to do so and two because i dont want a new relationship, im sure you two would do the same. and if you tw are meant to be together im sure it will work out. you will be thakful you took a break, realized there was nothing more you wanted than each ohter and did not drive wach ohter insane in the mean while. but if u do find someone different than all for the better. your heart is hard headed, however your mind can reason..

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