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writes:I'm really worried about my relationship, me and my boyfriend of 2 years are fine at the moment but I feel like when I look into his eyes they are not to be trusted, call it a gut feeling if you like, he has already cheated and told other girls he loves them he is so childish and is ermmm very insucure. I have tried to leave him a few time because I have been unhappy and he just dosen't let me. He will stand throwing things at my window until I come out of the house and then talk his way round things and I try to talk to him like an adult and explain why I am unhappy and think it's time for a break and he just cries and pulls the whole guilt thing which is making my life really difficult.Please, I am begging anyone to help me like in the best way possible and don't just say I am being stupid, I generally need proper advice thanx
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reader, AbiiBabes +, writes (12 August 2008):
 You're not being stupid at all!! if any1 is he is!!
When you try to talk to him, and he puts on this guilt feeling to you, ignore the fact that he is being childish, and just carry on like you were planning, be mature about it all, and let it hit his sense that you are truley being serious x
And if he does un-acceptable things, get the police involved, for harrassment?
Take care (:
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 May 2008): I am in a similair situation. I really know this guy is bad for me - he makes me feel so bad, like evything is my fault. I may be having a fantastic day and then he will come over and drain all my happiness and energy and leave me feeling like a secong rate citizan. But he is so addictive - I hate him and yet I so want him to love me. It is so sad and desperate and it is so easy to say leave him . . . why can't I ? Please help
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (9 February 2008):
 Breaking up is a very hard thing to do but there is no choice if you don't love him anymore. He has to accept the decision that your relationship is no more.
Tell him you could still be friends and slowly wean him off you.Act cool towards him and he will slowly lose interest in you.
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reader, darksides  +, writes (9 February 2008):
 Well Im a guy, and from my perspective i believe he is taking you for granted into the fact that usually when you feel something is wrong it tends to be so, if you feel he has been unfaithful confront hi m about it, I mean you say he's acting immature, , sit him down in a situation in which he has to act his age, give yourselves some space a week a month w.e. is needed, I'm currently going through something very similar, and i realize it takes an outside view to analyze things without bias, I suggest you give yourselves some space, just try to talk to him about it. and find it in yourself to see things more clearly, analyze his actions.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 February 2008): i know this may sound weird but you have to find a way to make him not want to be with you. like one of those movies, like "ow to lose a guy in 10 days". just be really obnoctious (sorry i cant spell. be moody and whiney and cranky and stuborn. take my advice. i know from experience that it works
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