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Climax Dilemma

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Question - (22 May 2006) 5 Answers - (Newest, 24 May 2006)
A female , anonymous writes:

I don’t think I have ever felt an orgasm even with all the foreplay (finger me , clitoris) my ex used to do, he was the only one reaching one, now I am alone and horny , and I don’t want to have one night stands or frees because of this, can you explain me how to do all this stuff for myself ?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (24 May 2006):

I completely understand. I realy enjoy sex and get really turned on, but never orgasm. I do sometimes feel horny when i'm alone, and have tried to make myself come, but to no avail... I actually find it quite strange, almost laughable, in fact, to do it to myself, so I often think there is no hope for me! Am I ab-normal too? I dunno...

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A female reader, Wendyg United Kingdom +, writes (23 May 2006):

Wendyg agony auntExplore and experiment. Play with your clitoris, invest in a love egg, they are small vibrating bullets that can be placed around the area, either alone or with a partner, the vibrations gradually bring you to orgasm, but you need to be free to explore this, relax take your time, dont rush yourself, once you have acheived it once it wont be so hard next time! Some woman can only orgasm Clitorally, some do orgasm vaginally, see whats best for you, the most sensitive part is the clitoris but this can work being stimulating whilst having something placed inside you, see what works for you and enjoy!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (23 May 2006):

Hey i suggest u masterbate, figure out what u like and u'll reach orgasm with yourself. Just take your time and explore your body and eventually u'll get very horny and discover something that feels really good until u reach climax. This could be w/ penetration or clit, who knows. After you've done this u'll know how to tell ur partner what u like and with time they should be able to make u orgasm.

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A female reader, watrbot +, writes (23 May 2006):

get yourself a vibrator. i was 30 before i had my first orgasm and i gave it to myself

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A reader, anonymous, writes (22 May 2006):

Communication. Need I say more?

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