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writes:I just had sex with my girlfriend...she consented to it of course but... we're both 16 and we did it in her dad's office. we did it when everybody was out and her dad came back earlier than expected...she got caught with me in an awkward position and she told me to run...now i'm here what do i do???? Reply to this Question
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reader, Simply Jane2011  +, writes (18 November 2010):
 well, all you can do is talk to her dad, i also have to agree with raphael, :) good luck
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reader, largentsgirl89  +, writes (18 November 2010):
 The vision of you screwing his daughter in his office is probably burned onto his retina.
You are going to have to face him sometime. You can't just run away from this, be a man, talk to him face to face. Over the phone if you feel safer with that and talk to him, understand that he is going to be furious. That's his baby girl, that you were screwing in his office. (thank you for the mental picture) I'm sure it would have been more comical for you if you weren't the one that was caught. Good luck.
I agree with Raphael.
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reader, Cerberus_Raphael  +, writes (18 November 2010):
 What can you do? Her father has probably had a stern talk with her and I can only assume that he is distraught, concerned and possibly traumatized, after all, you did do it in his office and he has to go there everyday...
I guess if you can muster all the courage you have in you. You could call him and apologize for doing what you did, show him that you are responsible, in some way. You cannot take the coward's way out of this. You should not run away.
I am willing to bet that she is being told to stay away from you. Depending on how strongly you feel about her, you should try to talk to him, over the phone, and tell him that you two feel strongly enough about each other. Avoid argument, he is her father, understand that it is only natural for him to lash out at you.
I hope that helps.
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reader, Jmtmj  +, writes (18 November 2010):
 Is he still banging on the door trying to get in while you type this under a desk? Please say yes, if only for the mental picture I've got right now :)
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