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Can't stop comparing women to my ex.

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Question - (14 December 2008) 1 Answers - (Newest, 14 December 2008)
A male United States age 36-40, anonymous writes:

My girlfriend broke up with me about 2 months ago and I've been trying to replace her in my life. I've done the free online dating thing and I even posted an ad on craigslist. The problem is that every woman I see I immediately compare to my ex and no one stacks up to her. Maybe it's still too early, but at this point, I feel like she was my soulmate; perfect for me in every way: mentally, emotionally, and physically. Is this normal and I'm just not over her yet or is this going to plague me for a long time?

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A female reader, taina1980 United States +, writes (14 December 2008):

Basically you are not over your ex- girlfriend. what's the rush trying to "replace" her so soon? spend sometime by yourself and be comfortable with you first... then move on... or are you the type that can't stand being alone? by moving on too soon all your going to do is end up in another relationship that won't work...just chill dude!

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