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Can't Get Over Him?

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Article - (15 September 2007) 2 Comments - (Newest, 11 October 2007)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, Bekk writes:

I know there is going to be soo many girls out there who are in love with this one boy who really doesnt love them back. im in the same situation.and i wanna tell my story and I hope it helps some of you out there.

well I met this lad Elliot a couple of years ago. he started taking an interest in me which seemed really strange because i hadnt got much attention in a while.but i thought to myself maybe try and make this work. So we went out for about a month and then he dumped me.

I was heart broken.I really couldnt believe it.but at the point when he dumped me that was when i really did realise i loved him.//3

time went by he took interest in me now and again but i was constantly depressed when evah he was near any other girl.then all of a sudden he took a massive interest in me. and i fell for it. we had sex 3 times.

then he went with some other girl a couple of days after i couldnt believe what i had done.

I was sick of being depressed so I decided to make him realise I didnt want him anymore. Soo I said to him why cant we just be best friends?

he said thats what ive always wanted.

So we became best friends and to this point today Ive become so much closer to him.and hes slowly falling in love with me for real all because I made him come running.

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A female reader, coconips United Kingdom +, writes (11 October 2007):

ah i totally know what your going through. I like this guy, we were great friends but then everyone found out i liked him and he started ignoring me. But now he keeps staring at me, and acting weird. And also theres this other guy who likes me and him and my crush hate each other and now they are suddenly talking to each other, everytime i walk past them they both watch me as i do it! What is goin on?! hehe why do boys have to be so confusing?

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A female reader, Debz 121 Ireland +, writes (19 September 2007):

Debz 121 agony auntIf you feel he is accualy falling for you go for it but if it;s like the last time stay well clear i mean it!! It's happened to me and i felt like i wanted to die, please give it up if you feel its not going anywhere. Take it from some one who knows. Please don't take this to affence, stay friends it could end with a broken heart!

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