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writes:ok so a little background...there was this guy who wouldn't leave me alone no matter how many times i told him i don't date guys. well it got to the point that i went to some friends for help. one of my best friends..lets call her Rachel said she would be completely ok with helping me. I though this is great, i can get this guy off my back. Rachel was going to play my gf for the day so the guy would get the message. the only problem was...i'm mad about her for about a year now...she's so sweet and we're really close. so the pretending to be my gf almost killed me, and i couldn't give her a good excuse as to why i didn't want her to do it. the thing is, she has a bf and they've been together a long while and are eventually planning on getting married. that's one problem, the other is...even if i did convince her that i really like her, Rachel is my best friend and i don't want to destroy our current relationship in hopes of something better. idk what to do. please help
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reader, AuntyAlexxmo  +, writes (3 March 2010):
 If your friend means that much to you then it is not worth ruining your relationship by telling her about your feelings when you know that she is happy in her current relationship. Now about this guy you need to tell him straight that you are upset that he has not left you alone yet and if he does not leave you alone this time then you will have to take this further either with the police or another authority this should get through to him. good luck =] x
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reader, spinnaker +, writes (1 March 2010):
 Rather than try the elaborate scheme you just explained you should have matter of factly told him that you want to be left alone by him and if he continues to bother you, you will consider it harassment and move forward from there. Generally they get the point after that.
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