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writes:hey,, i have a friend,, but she's just a friend , we are both singles, and we do not love /crush each other. is it right for us to have sex, just for our physical needs, will it hamper our relationship, if we dont get mentally involved. plzzzz rply Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 March 2012): FWB can work... but it has to start that way. You cannot have a platonic friendship and segue into FWB. It never ends well if you do.
Nothing fucks a good friendship up like fucking.
You don't have sex with your friends. That's what dating, and if you are a moron, one night stands are for.
How can you look at a friend normally again once you know what they look like when they orgasm, sound like? Taste like. What they are like in bed? How can you stop that from becoming a relationship of sorts? How do you NOT let emotion into that? Emotion is ALREADY there because friendship is built on it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 March 2012): I think it will probably hurt the friendship or make things weird between you. Even if you don't develop romantic feelings, other kinds of feelings can creep in such as insecurity.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 March 2012): I think it can sometimes work, but only if she's the type of girl who can have casual sex without getting attached. If she isn't the type who can do it with guys she doesn't know so well, then don't expect her to be able to handle it with you.
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reader, eek  +, writes (21 March 2012):
 i managed it with a female friend for years until she got a bf so yes it can be done as long as you both set the boundaries before you start anything.
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reader, shazz1991xoxo +, writes (21 March 2012):
 no way these things never work out someone always gets a bit more jealous than the other, it could take time but it eventually happens in the end, save ur friendship before it's too late friendship is more important xoxo good luck
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reader, Sageoldguy1465 +, writes (21 March 2012):
 You and she can choose to start a "FWB" arrangement.... but... be forewarned that those (FWB) commonly fall apart because/when one of the participants wants/expects more than the other....
Which one will you be?????
Good luck....
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reader, uroboros +, writes (21 March 2012):
don't go for it, both of you will get harmed somehow.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (21 March 2012):
 "she's just a friend" not for long.....
it will mess up the friendship....
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reader, person12345 +, writes (21 March 2012):
 Not possible.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 March 2012): You will get emotionally involved, one of you at least,eventually. Its usually the woman.
So no, you can't.And yes it will harm the friendship.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 March 2012): FWB never work. Once u add sex to a friendship there is no going back. One will fall for the other by the time one of u wants to call it off
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