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female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:Im so confuse. I have this bf before, i meet him online and d relation last 5 years but we never meet personally, but we both know we do love each other.i did not try to meet him personally because i know my family will extreme mad at me if i go to the man that doesnt have much money. times goes by we lose contact. after 7 years we reach contact again but now he have already wife and 1 baby. it hurt me a lot but i do accept it, i know i still love him but now im also married. we are now both married but and we become honest to each other to admit it. we still didnt meet each other its the same routine its only in online but we both decide that were just now friend. I know that we still love each other but i know also that we both respect our partner now but we cant stop communicating to each other even just friend. now his wife accedentally got my offline message to him saying i still care and she get mad at me. i was hurt but i know where should i stand. but i dont know now what shall i do" shall i keep on touch with him or not anymore? we are not doing anything and inside of our heart we really dont wanna hurt ur partner but can we not be friend anymore?
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 October 2009): Hi. It wasnt a very sound relationship if you never even met each other. And clearly you knew it wouldnt work. Im sure you would have tried being together if you had loved each other that much. So why do you want to rekindle old feelings now you are both married and he has a child with his wife? Telling him you still have feelings for him isnt just being friends. Its trying to rekindle old feelings. And now his wife has found your message, how do you think that makes her feel! Try and leave your ex alone and concentrate on fixing or ending your relationship with your husband. That should be your priority not an ex youve never even met, whos now a married man with a family! All the best.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 October 2009): his wife has a right to be abgry at you and him. please leave him alone. he is married and he has a young child to take care of. you are having an emotional affair and you cannot call this friendship. you are fooling yourself if you do. your husband will not be please that you have having this affair and he will not be as tolerant as the other mand wife.
if you do not love your husband then leave him to find a faithful wife since you are not faithful to him.
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