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male
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:I am a gay man in a 10 year relationship. I've known my partner since we were 13 and 14 and began dating at 18 and 19. Almost exactly ten years later, he tells me that he's lost passion, and doesn't know if he can get it back. We have an appointment to see a therapist, but I'm not convinced he wants to make it work. Does anyone have advice for a situation to re light the spark in our relationship. He tells me he loves, just not romantically.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 November 2008): Thanks for your response. It's really hard to believe this can happen after 10 years with hardly a fight or miscommunication. He says he's willing to try, but he's not sure he believes it can happen. I can't let 10 years go away without a fight. I care for him dearly, and hope we can bring back the passion. I'm not one to believe in therapy, but I guess it's worth a try. I wonder if anyone has a smilar experience that has turned to a success story. This is the hardest thing I've ever gone threw.
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