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Can someone fall in love just by chatting?

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Question - (3 June 2009) 8 Answers - (Newest, 3 June 2009)
A female France age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I know that guy from msn for around six months he told me that he is into me in the next day we chatted I told him that can't be real as he barely knows me I'm 18 and he is 27 he asked for my phone number millions of time I gave it to him.now he calls me every day the.the problem is that we are coming from different background he is african americana guy and I'm arabian. is it true that he loves me I can't believe someone can fall in love just by chatting. we hadn't seen each other. and recently he asked for marriage.

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A male reader, ArmyMedic United Kingdom +, writes (3 June 2009):

ArmyMedic agony auntFalling in love with someone you only chat to on the internet = Internet dating!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (3 June 2009):

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ArmyMedic, we weren't dating, we weren't using internet dating

we were in the same educational forum and he asked me to add him as he needs some help thats all. then everything grew especially from his side. so fast

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A male reader, ArmyMedic United Kingdom +, writes (3 June 2009):

ArmyMedic agony auntI think you can be in love with the idea of loving someone but it is not "true love" I would be very careful when it comes to internet dating.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (3 June 2009):

Meet in person and see if you click.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (3 June 2009):

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i can't hurt his feeling I won't ever do such a thing to anyone.this is difficult.How can I know he tells me the truth ?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (3 June 2009):

Yes you can.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (3 June 2009):

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yesterday i told him that I can't trust him and I couldn't carry on so I hanged up.

I'm oversensitive and I can't imagine him playing a trick on me. he is kind and I usually don't see the negative side of people. he wants us to meet very much but I refused as it not allowed in my culture. he called several times, I didn't answer. I'm confused I'm not sure about my feeling,I'm not that crazy about him he knew and don't seem care(so confident maybe) but in the same time I don't want to hurt him.

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A male reader, GrimmReality United States +, writes (3 June 2009):

GrimmReality agony auntTread carefully!

He may be in love with the feelings you give him, but please do not even consider his proposal. People easily can feel something very strong at the other end of the computer. It is fairly common.

I would consider that in reality since you don't know him personally, you date somebody in the real world, near where you live.

Online romance is a crapshoot at best, and I advise you to stay cordial, but not to rush into anything without a lot of thought beforehand.

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