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writes: I have been friends and seeing a younger man. We have a good time. I am considering the possibility of sex with him. Can sex with a man that is 10 to 15 years younger be a good idea? Can sex with a younger man be a good experience? What is good about the experience? If I decide that sex with him is a good idea how can I help him not be concerned with lack of experience? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 April 2009): since i was 20 i have always thought that woman at your age group are THE women , they know what they want and how to get it and they have no time for drama !!
and therefor if i was him i would appreciate and react and live the experiance with all the feelings !!
and i strongly beleive that he interrested in you or he wouldnt have dated you,
so generaly i beleive that it would be fun
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reader, Karlin24  +, writes (19 April 2009):
 I'm 38, and occassionally, I have relations with a 23 year old. First of all, you hold all the cards, which is fun. He will work his ass off to please you. He may fail. But he's young, so in 10 minutes, he's ready to try again. He's looking to you to show him, so do it. Be patient and sweet with him. Show him what to do. If you end up together, well, you've raised him right. If you don't, you've given a gift to every woman he has after you
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 April 2009): When I was a younger man, I had a GF in your age group. No complaints:) from her, or me. Also, regardless of age, I think people falling into bed get to know each other in an intimate way taht's unique to each couple. I think that some people might be "good" with someone, and "bad" with another, i.e., not a good fit (no pun intended). Sexual chemistry, I think, is unique to each couple. My buddy dated an ex GF of mine (long time ago) whom I thought was good in bed, many positions and eager to please, and my buddy says she just lays there... as Woody Allen says, Even bad sex is good:)
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 April 2009): Well, I can't tell you if it will be a good experience or not.I myself fit into the same age category as the young man that you are describing.If he has never had sex before, just tell him exactly what you want him to do. If you tell him what to do, and when to do it, he doesn't have to worry about if he is doing the right thing or not. Pretty soon you won't have to say anything and he'll know what to do.If he has had sex before, he probably thinks that he is God's gift to women (most of us think that), so confidence shouldn't be an issue. Still, don't hesitate to describe, in detail, exactly what you want him to do (it's kind of a turn-on).Be warned: sooner or later he will probably find a woman closer to his own age, but there is no reason you can't have a few good months or years together.
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