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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes: My boyfiend and I are both virgins. We have talked about sex and decided we are ready for it. Can sex be a way of saying "I love you"? How? What makes it such?
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 September 2008): I think the guy below is ridiculous. Why should his wife feel guilty? What is there to forgive? If you're in love and you want to have sex, never feel guilty about it. You are quite young though, so take time to consider and don't rush into it, talk it over and discuss your feelings with your boyfriend. Don't do it unless you feel sure, as sex can make you feel emotionally vulnerable. It is a way of being really close to someone. Since you don't seem to understand why it's a way of showing love, maybe you aren't ready for it. If you do decide to do it, use a condom.
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male
reader, anonymous, writes (23 September 2008): Bad idea. Please don't do this. My wife lost her virginity to her first boyfriend when she was your age. It has profoundly affected our marriage. She feels constant guilt about it and I don't feel as if I can ever forgive her, as I waited patiently to be married and she didn't. Save this for marriage, it is the only sure way to make sex not only say 'I love you' but also 'you are my soulmate'
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